But, there was a female representative, and now you need to live by the rules, which she herself sets. Numerous inquiries: "where were you", "why did you come late", "could not call?", Etc., are increasingly beginning to annoy. Now, before you do something, you have to reckon with your wife, otherwise you'll be "puffed up" and will be spoiling your mood all evening with an offended look, letting you know that you are to blame for all her failures. Hikes with friends in the bath are replaced by jogging through the shops, where they sell the same thing, but she still can not choose. Even when he finds something and the question: "Well, how's it going for me?", You do an affirmative nod, she snorts and takes offense.
In a joint life in the concept of men there should be at least some share of freedom, dynamism, otherwise even small domestic and family responsibilities begin to irritate . So, I wanted to go out of town for a picnic or a sauna with my friends - I gathered, left. In a joint life, it does not work out that way. We must first inform the wife about this, persuade her to agree, then patiently wait for her many hours of training, listen to her that she has forgotten something and all the desire to go somewhere is evaporating.
Prohibitions in the concept of men, only provoke to do something that is impossible. For example, you can not smoke in the kitchen. As soon as his wife leaves somewhere, let an ashtray with cigarette butts appear on the dacha in the kitchen. The same goes for watching sports shows, bathing, fishing, etc. The more this is "impossible", the more you want to do it. Thus, there is a confrontation. Why a woman for days on end can run around shopping, spend time in salons, talk with friends, and a man can not do what he likes because she does not like it.
Joint life drastically changes the meaning of the word "talk". If a woman is silent, then the man did something wrong. And try, guess. Or the other extreme - she can not help talking. If a man is silent during her stories, she does not like it, she is offended that he does not listen to her. If a man inserts a word, she will not like it either, because he interrupts it. Usually, with such women, life together ends quickly. A man wants a woman to listen to him and understand. If he talks about what he has already told and understands that she seems to hear this for the first time, the man concludes that his life is not interesting to her, because his stories pass by "by the ears".
The life of a man and a woman is not always a "battlefield". If people once decided to live together, then something still unites them. In a joint life, he is looking for a quiet harbor, where you can come after work and relax, relax. In addition, men like tasty food and they need to have sex, even if you do not want to. Not all men are ready for fatherhood. If, at first, he receives enough attention, warmth and affection, then the rapid appearance of the child leads him into a state of shock, because he recedes into the background.
Men are looking for women for whom they are "real heroes." Men love it when they are praised, when they are admired. They can not stand when they are compared to other men and conclude that the woman has not yet decided on the choice, since she pays attention to others. Men expect from women wisdom, understanding and insane love.
In a life together, he and she learn to be together.