Of course, this fact pretty much embarrasses us, and we first begin to rummage in ourselves, searching for the shortcomings, which, we think, push the man away from us. But most often, the reason for this behavior comes from the internal state of the man himself. It can be various unpleasant accompanying factors connected with its internal problems. And, as you know, men do not like to take the state of their behavior for discussion. Because they do not want to admit that these problems exist in general. Doubt in male consistency is a blow below the belt for every representative of the strong half of humanity. In this situation, the only true way will be to take the man out to a frank conversation, starting the conversation first. It all depends on how you start it. This must be done very correctly and accurately, that would not anger or not hurt his feelings and emotions. The worst option here is to pronounce the accusatory speech in his address, immediately after you hear his refusal to engage in sex with you. The conversation in general can begin without necessarily at this moment, but, for example, wait until you are both in a calm temper and can talk heart to heart. Only in this situation you have more chances to find out the true cause of what is happening. And you with confidence for yourself can understand the fact in general, in what cases a man does not want sex with a woman.
And while you did not ask him yourself, let's consider the most well-known in the people reasons for the cases in which a man does not want to have sex with a woman. We are able to express our emotions, in a word we live by them. Men are less emotional people in the cause of their male psychology, therefore, they are much more difficult to bear the problems associated with work or family. He constantly winds himself up with this and that and nothing else and can not think as a solution to these troubles. Even your usual quarrel with him, which took place a day ago, can cause his "cooled desire". As a conclusion - he's just not close to you or he decided to teach you this way and punish. Still as the reason can serve its internal "I". For example, at the moment, you are the initiator of sex, and the muzhiks, as a rule, like to achieve this from ourselves. And as a result, it simply did not suit him and touched him. Many men do not like when a girl offers sex, because they like the very process of that "divorce" they are more excited from this. As they say the wrong place and time, what can you do about it. Be sure to wait for the first step directly from him, and itself to diminish your ardor and perseverance.
Of course, if you do not know the most acute problem in this topic is the case when a man just loses interest in you as a woman. He ceases to feel a sexual attraction and because of this refuses you. This very often happens when your relationship has a significant time or just stalled from despair, but keeps you together, just the habit of seeing each other side by side. You stopped exciting him like a woman, that's the whole answer. Your sex, he considers boring and uninteresting. Also here we can safely attribute the fact that he may well have another woman who completely satisfies him, and he simply does not have enough strength to have sex with you. By the way, about the forces. Do not take everything the above mentioned to heart. Sometimes his attitude to this case is explained by usual fatigue or laziness. And if you really know that he belongs to the type of passive (not only in sex) men, then it makes no sense to puzzle. He's just much nicer to lie on the couch with a remote control from the TV (especially if football is planned for tonight) than to sweat five minutes with you in bed.
Still as the reason - you, on the psychological subconscious of male perception, do not interest him as a woman. Accordingly, he treats sex with you as something compulsory that does not bring any special pleasure. You are too passive in bed or vice versa and as a reason you are simply not his type of woman in intimate affairs. Men are demanding of themselves and their partner during intimacy, so they are very scrupulous about the choice of a sexual partner. And even if you look one hundred percent, you still can not always satisfy his sexual desires and needs. You're just sexually incompatible people and that's it. It is also worth mentioning a few other factors affecting his refusal in proximity. They are relevant in the event that you have not yet had your first intimacy with this partner. This is not his confidence in his experience (afraid of disappointing you), fear of sex (maybe he is still a virgin). The small size of the penis (or impotence), some psychological trauma of childhood, a different kind of disease (maybe even a venereal disease). He is a believer (excludes any intimate ties with a woman before they marry both of them, because this is his opinion is nothing else than adultery leading sin) or do not rule out the case that you just got a representative of sexual minorities, that is, a homosexual . As if the latter did not sound ironic, but nowadays it happens.
And so we considered the most common reasons for when a man does not want to have sex with a woman. And from the above, it should be noted that, as if there was not, and talk to you on this topic will be. There is nothing to torment each other. After all, love without sex does not happen and vice versa.