We can be afraid that the new chosen one will not be the same as your past love. Suddenly he will disappoint? Suddenly he will give you those feelings that were experienced with the past man.
You are afraid to accept the love of a man, because you think that you will be offended, or betrayed. Because of this fear, often the relationship collapses or they are not even allowed to begin. For this reason, women often choose temporary relationships, which is called for sex. Unfortunately, after surviving the betrayal of a partner, a woman psychologically repels the possibility of new relationships, afraid to trust and open up to a partner.
There is a reason why there is a fear of a new relationship. This reason comes from childhood itself. If, parents were not an example of a happy family, then a woman comes to the conclusion that she will not have a happy family either. It does not even occur to her that relationships can be easy, happy, and enjoyable. The parents' unsuccessful experience in building relationships, projects fear to start their own relationship.
If a woman grew up in a very happy and loving family, where she was constantly trying to prove that such a second family in nature no longer exists. This leads to the fact that the ideals of women about the family and relationships are greatly exaggerated. And find the right man is not possible.
If you ask a woman the question of how she sees her future relationship, then, of course, she will begin to list the qualities that a man should possess. Family should be happy, there should not be quarrels and conflict situations. If she is not sure that everything will be exactly this way, it's easier to be alone than to suffer in a not happy marriage. Psychologists believe that the main problem of women, which causes fear of a new relationship - is that they consider a man to be "a new dress in the store." Only her wishes are taken into account. Initially, she is not ready to give in a relationship.
If a woman overcomes herself, she accepts life and everything around her as a reality, then she will have a better chance of building a lasting relationship. Fears and the influence of stereotypes are not characteristic of adults and self-confident personalities.
Insecurity is another fear of a new relationship. Low self-esteem contributes to the fact that a woman does not consider the possibility of building a family or even making a short-lived romance.
In this situation, there is only one piece of advice: start loving and trusting yourself.
Strong, confident women are also afraid of relationships. There are stereotypes in them, that its strength and position will frighten any man. Its shell is strength, beauty, self-confidence, superiority over others. And, in fact, inside the iron lady lives a tender girl who craves a simple and beautiful feeling - love.
Fear of losing freedom, being bound by attitudes and obligations on the hands and feet. A woman has a life, a man does not fit into any niche at all. On him and the relationship just does not have time, because every day painted on small things.
The greatest fear of a new relationship is experienced by women who have children after their previous marriage. It seems to her that the children will not accept the new elected one, or he will not be able to cope with the new duties, he will not love children, as she would like it. In this situation, it is necessary to understand that children will sooner or later grow up and create family soybeans, and you will remain at the broken trough.