It's just like everyone else
The strangeness of a person can be manifested in the fact that he simply does not belong to your society. That is, the most banal example: the whole company listens to rap, and your guy listens to rock. Because of this, he becomes a stranger to others, because he does not share their tastes, moreover, he gravitates to the very opposite. Therefore, if you understand that the tastes of your young man differ markedly from what your friends like, then the pair is not at all strange. It's just that he stands out among those who are infatuated. This difference causes misunderstanding, and sometimes aggression. A young man can be reproached for not being like everyone else, putting his habits and tastes in a negative light. But if you know that there are many people with the same tastes and views, then you need to explain to your friends that you need to think more. You can not judge a person just because he is not like them. Remind your friends that among people like your boyfriend, they will already look strange and incomprehensible. As a child, these differences in tastes and behaviors lead to the fact that a white crow is made from a child, insulted, called, they say that he is strange. Unfortunately, in the adult life, some people continue to carry on. In case, if friends do not want to accept arguments and will continue to insist on their own, it is worthwhile to think about who is reallystrong, because such acute rejection of a person different from the masses, speaks only of the psychological problems of other people who do not want to know anything new, knowingly and subconsciously afraid that someone is better than they are, so they do not want to enter into contact with the real world, which is full of different characters, tastes, preferences and other differences between people d.
Believer
Very often people are treated with a lack of understanding for those who devote themselves to faith. If your young man is a believer, especially if he is a member of some so-called sect (Pentecostals, charismatics and tadaleye), it is quite possible that your friends will consider him strange. For many, faith in God is a purely personal matter, for which neither church nor sect is required. By the same token, many people among the youth are generally skeptical about religion and consider themselves atheists. Naturally, the one who zealously believes in God, will seem to them very strange. After all, for many sincere believers in God, it's like faith in fairy tales. And what a normal adult person will trust in fairy tales? That's why, after learning that your boyfriend is a true believer, friends and begin to treat him as a strange person, incomprehensible to this society. But such behavior on their part is not normal. Everyone has the right to believe in what he wants, at least in God, even in Luke Skywalker. And while he does not harm others with his faith and does not impose it, it is clearly not worth condemning such a man. Therefore, if you know that your boyfriend does not speak to friends of religion and does not try to convert them to his faith, in this situation your company is not right. It is she who behaves strangely, since she begins to judge a man for his purely personal desires and views. Perhaps they are talking about you, because they know how often the second halves of sectarians are also converted into a sect. But if you yourself see that the guy does not want to do this, that he is adequate and knows that everyone has the right to choose, then your friends are already behaving like real sectarians. They are trying to persuade a man to draw him out of the faith, convince him in all ways that he is wrong, call it strange only because people do not believe like they do. In this case, you need to discuss this issue with your friends and explain to them that your guy's strangeness does not concern anyone, since he does not impose his opinion on them, so they should not impose his opinion on them either.
But if you see that the guy himself provokes such a relationship of friends, begins prayer services in a crowded place, threatens them with Hyenas of Fire, constantly tries to convert, then his behavior can indeed be called strange. In this case, you will need to speak directly with your boyfriend. Explain to him that everyone has the right to live the way he lives and believes in what he wants. So do not bother with people, try to impose your opinion and get to do what he wants. It is worthwhile to note that too zealous believers are very difficult to build relationships by the believer unbelievers or who are related to religion differently from themselves. Therefore, if you notice such behavior for your boyfriend, you still need to think about whether it is worth building a relationship with him further. After all, early or late, he will necessarily want to convert you into his faith. And if you do not need it, then your relationship will eventually turn into constant scandals and quarrels on the basis of completely different views on religion and life in general.
Really strange
But apart from other views and beliefs, a person can be really strange. And it becomes strange at the moment when it begins to do things that are unacceptable for the society, because they contradict the basic rules of culture and morality. By the way, one should never confuse love of jokes with foreignness. For example, if a guy on a dispute ran in his pants and skiing at the New Year's store for a bottle of champagne - then he's a joker. But if a person in kind goes to work, it is already clearly visible that he is with weirdness. Therefore, if your friends tell you exactly such strange examples of the behavior of your young man, then it is worth thinking about. Really evaluate the situation and determine whether his behavior is a joke or he really does everything seriously. And if this is so, then you should think about whether you need to meet such a young man, because most likely, his behavior is a direct sign of mental deviations. And mental problems are a very big tragedy and a big load for the person who is near. So think about what you want from the relationship and whether you can tolerate such a strange person all your life, and perhaps, and treat it. If you understand what "happiness" you do not need, then it is better to leave, because the present strangeness in behavior with the years will only increase, together with the progress of mental illnesses.