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Scientists and psychologists studying the nature of laughter, always interested in the question "How does humor affect love relationships?" It would seem that the answer is obvious: positively. Laughter, joint positive emotions bring you closer to your partner. You are joking, not being afraid to seem ridiculous, and therefore, trust, to each other, become more open.
But there is another answer to this question. Two American scientists conducted such an experiment. They asked 200 men and women to look at photos of people of the opposite sex and choose those with whom they would gladly go on a date.
An important detail: the "owners" of some photos left funny comments underneath them, all the rest were neutral signatures. As a result, almost all the women participating in the experiment wanted to go on a date with men who presented themselves amusingly, while the choice of men did not depend on the sense of humor of the ladies in the photo. The conclusion is simple: both men and women appreciate the sense of humor in their second half, but ladies appreciate the ability to laugh, and men - the ability to appreciate a joke.
Well, thanks to scientists, it is now clear how you can finally convince your loved one that you are perfection: laugh, laugh and laugh at his jokes again, exalt his sense of humor. Phrases "You made me laugh so!" And "It's so witty!" - your secret weapon along with sexy underwear or the brand-name "Peking Duck". Itself, even if you have a sparkling sense of humor, still dose jokes, do not try to outdo your partner. Agree, there are many other areas where you can shine with wit: with friends, at work.
So, with the fact that the jokes of a loved one "everywhere we have a road", we sorted it out. But how to be, if your chosen one jokes, let's say, so, is not always successful, even in your uncritical opinion? And to put it bluntly, he spits out with scabrous witticisms and anecdotes, the beard of which even Karabas-Barabas would be proud! Well, for you two news: good and bad. The good thing is that wit is not an inborn quality, it can be inculcated. And the bad thing is that you'll have to vaccinate him. So, let's start, only for the beginning I would like to make two digressions. Firstly, you should know that for any man to be branded as unfunny is almost the same thing as a bad lover. Therefore, giving your beloved some advice, be delicate, or even better, is almost imperceptible.
Secondly, no matter how unsuccessfully he joked, do not make comments on the partner with outsiders. In this situation, it's probably too much to laugh, but it's just right to smile politely.
Pay attention to who is more addressed to his jokes: men, women, all at once? The fact is that the humorous tastes of different audiences can differ: that for some it's funny, for others it's silly. Try somehow to talk about this with your loved one. Let him not try to make everyone laugh, it's not always possible for a professional comedian. But to seize the attention of two or three people, he is quite capable.
It is understood that a truly witty person is always well educated. Therefore, throw him occasionally novelties of popular writers and arrange family views of the author's cinema. Of course, anecdotes are good in the sense that they can be read in any entertainment publication or found on the Internet. But this, and their minus: it's not a fact that the audience has heard them repeatedly, moreover, from a more talented narrator. Therefore, you should not follow the path of least resistance: it is better to make people laugh "with stories from life". Especially if these stories happened to the narrator. If the funny stories with your partner did not happen, you can and decorate a couple of just funny.
To begin with a digression into the history. They say that Marie Antoinette was very afraid of losing her husband's royal wife, Louis. We must admit that her fears were not unfounded: by the standards of those years, the queen was already middle-aged (alas, neither about facelift, nor even about a decent cream for wrinkles then we had never heard), and at the court there were so many young seductresses. And then she, in order to rejuvenate, began to change into a shepherdess. I must say that Louis laughed a lot, observing how not the first freshness "shepherdess" rushes through the palace gardens with a gilded staff, driving a herd of scented sheep. But the result was achieved: Louis again went to visit her in the bedroom.
This funny story about the greats of this world only confirms the fact that sexologists do not get tired of proving: laughter has an exciting effect on men. Your playful mood will only revitalize your sex life. Take at least a sex role play. Agree to appear before a loved one in a special suit, say, a nurse who opens more than hides, you need to have a sense of humor. And your beloved, too, especially when you will put him "diagnosed", and then "treat".
However, jokes are jokes , but combining sex and laughter is necessary "wisely". The line between subtle humor and ridicule is almost imperceptible. And you probably know firsthand how sensitive, there are men, when jokes relate to the theme "below the belt". Therefore, "measure ten times, cut once", when you want to joke about his behavior in bed, give him a funny nickname or present a present from a sex shop.