By the way, the Germans adhere to the same tradition, defining the place of women in space with the phrase "Kitchen. Children. Church". The current women tend to be independent. It's good. But is every woman capable of this independence?
Independence is possible only for women with a sharp mind, strong character and some degree of cunning. It is worth remembering that many Russian men consider independence their prerogative and try to defend it in every possible way. Regarding men to independent women, this desire is pretty bad.
Any more or less adult and independent man will try to make so that his half - a wife or girlfriend, depended on him. If not in a financial sense, then morally. And he will try to maintain and strengthen this dependence with a phrase like: "I graduated from the graduate school, but you can not recover at the technical school!" Or this: "I'm already the head of the department, and you're still a simple secretary. Throw a job, sit at home! "Secured heads of families, by the way, are more often than others trying to write their wives into housewives. Or hard and rough: the place of the woman at the stove! Or more correctly: Well, you're bent on strangers' backs, you meet a child from school, prepare dinner .... And there, you see, they will completely deprive the right to vote: "I said, you listen." And attention, incidentally, will be paid to those most independent women!
In order not to turn into a wordless and completely dependent on her husband housewife, you need to defend your interests from the very beginning. Gently, but consistently and aggressively. Independent women are attracted by the fact that they themselves decide what to read, what to dress, where to go. And do not wait for money and gifts from the faithful, who, incidentally, can demeaning to control everything to a penny. But being a mistress of your destiny is an exciting and respectable occupation. After all, you have your own position, your salary and your opportunities - to get an education or go to cardio striptease courses.
Do not agree? Do you think a good attitude of men to themselves can be won by obedience rather than independent women often meet lonely old age sadly crying at the window? Do not believe it, diligent housewives tell it rather with envy. And just as often they are left alone in a much more unenviable situation, much more unprotected. Because independence is responsibility, for yourself, for your children, for the work you do. And yet - the habit of making independent and informed decisions. A strong woman, at least, has a stable job and a stable salary and housing.
A successful woman often has the ability to think outside the box, a good education, is dressed and made up with taste. She knows how to draw attention to herself and attracts men just by her independence. And to marry an intelligent and independent woman is not a problem. A man in love is easy to tie even more, showing his little weakness.
"Everyone chooses a woman, religion, road" ... And every woman herself will have to choose whether to leave her favorite job for the sake of the family. Or learn how to combine family life and career. Remembering that friends, work, hobbies help to change and grow much faster, strengthening family relations. After all, independent women get strong and successful men who value in their women's mind, spiritual wealth, unusual.