Unfortunately, there is no universal answer to such questions. After all, every girl is individual. Everyone lives with their principles, views on life, the sense of the world around them, they have their habits, complexes and "cockroaches". But, if you thoroughly dig into the essence of the matter, then you can take some advice for yourself. So why does personal life so often cause each of us at least once to think: "Why am I not lucky in life with guys?".
Take, for example, girls of the age category from 13 to 15 years. This age is a transition period in the life of each person. When everything is perceived through the prism of fatality. If something good happens, everything is good everywhere, and if it's bad, then the end of the world has come and soon the Earth will plunge into darkness. In such years, girls are still childishly naive and pure, than older guys can enjoy with pleasure. Another very big problem that could turn into a tragedy. In our time it is, unfortunately, very common. This is a loss of virginity. Environments of modern youth of this age category there is an opinion that it is considered unfashionable, that is, to preserve innocence. Therefore, many girls, succumbing to the general pressure of surrounding adolescents, take this step, exposing themselves to physical and psychological trauma. For this reason, in the future, the girl can easily have problems in dealing with the guys. Simply in an intimate life, she will constantly subconsciously be afraid of the repetition of those unpleasant sensations and pain that accompanied her first sexual contact.
At this age, the girls are, so to speak, in the "ugly duckling" stage, so the guys can not pay attention to them. This is the period of transition from girl to girl. And, throughout it, you need to start a transformation. It is necessary to gradually change their own children's wardrobe to a more adult, hairstyle and start using cosmetics. But this does not mean that you need to wear mini-skirts, flaunt your bare stomach or decorate yourself like Papuan. Everything should be in moderation. On this issue you can contact your mother. She will tell you and advise that, how and with what is combined. Gradually prepare yourself for an adult life. And to say at 13, that you are not lucky with the guys, it's too early. Dear girls, do not deprive yourself of childhood.
"From 16 and older." Yes, with guys can not carry as in 16 years, and in 25. Here you and the beauty, and the clever and hands at you gold, and does not carry also all. Let's look at two life situations, and then try to figure out why we are not lucky with guys in life.
Situation number 1. "At school I did not have a boyfriend. In general, I was a modest girl, I did not go out for walks in the evening, I learned all the lessons. Then I entered the university, and moved to live from my parents in another city. Student life I immediately liked. All these parties, parties and parties were to my liking. At one of those parties, I met a guy. He seemed to come out of my dream, all such a beautiful, muscular football player. In general, I fell in love with him to the ears. We have a relationship. There were flowers, gifts, everything is beautiful so, even fabulously. I loved him so much that at every free moment I wrote SMS to him, dedicating poetry and, from time to time, gave him various soft toys, hearts and cards with confessions of love. But happiness did not last long. After six months of relationship, he left me. He said that he was tired of me and asked me not to call again, not to write and not to seek meetings with him ... "
Oksana, 18 years old
From this brief history you, dear girls, must endure for yourself that one can not make an idol from a boy and worship him like an idol. It should always be encouraged to make you gifts, and not to fill it with them. If your young man understands that his girlfriend completely belongs to him and is ready to follow all his instructions, then you will become uninteresting to him, and therefore unnecessary. After all, they need a riddle that needs to be revealed, a girl who needs to be sought, and not one that conquers it. They also do not like excessive sentiments, in the form of hundreds of SMS per day, as well as the dozens of teddy bears you donated by which their room is littered. They are not girls, but representatives of the male sex!
Situation number 2. "We have met for two years, as I suggested that he live together. He was not against it. I really liked living together. I gladly cooked for him to eat, washed and ironed his shirts. We fell asleep and woke up together. I was tired, of course, did not always have enough strength after work and all these cases go to the beauty salon, but he did not say anything to me, which means that he was happy with everything. Only here his long business trips and delays at work late late broke our idyll. We talked about it, but he said that in another way it is impossible. After all, this is his job, and in general, but he tries for me. Well, here I was reconciled to this. And then, he packed up his things and left for another woman. A year later they were married and they already have a child. And I still can not come to my senses "
Katia, 26 years old
We girls just need to remember one golden rule in dealing with men, you can not force them to live together or, even worse, go to the registry office! They are afraid of this as a feature bald. I understand perfectly well that there are men who can not make up their minds, so help them in this, but it's necessary to push with wisdom, with female wisdom, and not directly into the forehead. The second thing we can endure from this situation is that we should not become servants to them. Constant washing, cleaning and cooking will not make us sexier and more desirable for them. Believe me, they will not notice if you wash the floor not every week, but once a month. It is better to spend this time on a manicure or on making a face mask. They will definitely see it. Do not go home in a bathrobe. Put on tight clothing that will emphasize your dignity and hide faults. And third, do not be naive. Frequent business trips for no reason, and his delays at work until night, often have the same reason - the other woman. But do not become a paranoid and help terrorize your lover, just talk frankly with him, and once you can check the veracity of his words. As if by chance, for reinsurance.
We brought only two situations from life, but how much useful information they brought to us! This is certainly not all. But, if you take these advices into service, then this will help you in your further relations with the guys, the question: "Why I do not have luck in life with the guys" will disappear of itself. Love and be loved!