That is why it is believed that, in order to influence the woman, and to earn her favor, more deviation should be given to the expression of admiration, constant compliments, especially if they go to the address of seemingly inconspicuous detail. But often this behavior can be perceived very ambiguously. On the one hand, a man renders signs of attention, as a manifestation of his sympathy, and a desire to start some kind of relationship, or at least a little date. On the other hand - sometimes such gestures towards a woman can be provided, without a clear interest in her person, but simply out of respect or the desire to "grease". Especially often happens that flattery manifests itself against the background of the working environment in the organization where the woman works, especially if she does not occupy the last position. So it happens that the subordinate has an affair with the boss, more like working off additional hours of work, to increase wages.
But there are several ways to determine intentions on how a man renders attention signs, and if that is to maintain his working reputation.
Your behavior.
Women also do not mind, flirt with men, even if they are employees, without a difference, are married or single. But such behavior does not carry with it the desire to move things a little further than just communication. But men can perceive everything differently. And it becomes a signal to action.
The first stage of rendering a man's marks is attention to unobtrusive courtship. He holds the door with a smile, more and more often he is interested in how things are with you, touching upon extensive work topics, begins to sympathize, advise, try to come and go from work roughly with you, usually escorting to the front door of an office, a stop or a car.
Do not rely on the fact that it will remain unlooked. And the speed of inflation of gossip will depend entirely on your behavior and reaction. Even if you are handsome, still try to keep a distance, at least in the radius of your work.
Next, men tend to show more pressure, they are still delicate in behavior, but you are increasingly noticing the observation of you, an invitation to a smoke break, a joint dinner, tea / coffee. And you only need to give a spark, as the flame immediately flares up.
If the man is not interesting - let him understand this, or say it directly. At once he, of course, will not calm down, but in due course all will be as before. A man will be more offended at you, if you let him cross the line of friendship, and refuse to continue.
Certainly, male attention is nice, but it does not happen idle, and it is worthwhile to understand that every action has its own consequence.
His behavior.
Usually, as regards the provision of man's attention, the most active period is the initial period of relations, when he still needs to conquer a woman. Then their ardor subsides, and everything becomes more measured and ordinary. If your colleague or subordinate, suddenly began to breathe unevenly to your person - be careful. Depending on their nature, men usually either show their zeal brightly and briefly, or slowly, but a long period. A man who starts courting a woman with a clearly defined goal, usually in any case, tries to act quickly, so as not to waste time. Therefore, one can safely say that obsession is the sister of self-interest. If you feel pressure, from the side of a colleague - it's unlikely that a friend has revived his insane feelings towards you, especially if you have been working together for the first time. A man, especially working with you for a long time, will seek a more subtle approach.
Similarly, one should not react to "rolling", on the part of the authorities. Such intrigues will only have a bad effect on your reputation, and may even lead to dismissal. Usually, if the boss "has put an eye" on you, you will take a more loyal attitude to yourself. It is possible and the opposite, but a change in attitude towards your work is guaranteed. You can often be called on the carpet to purport to give comments or praise for the work done. Usually it all starts with frequent praise, and then necessarily follows, "but how do you look at discussing your future?" Such attention signs rendered by a man should be ignored, or keep to strict limits of the professional approach to attitudes at work.
Remember that a person who really has feelings for you will be just as respectful of your reputation as an employee and just a woman, will not make you fall into awkward situations, and will allow you to transfer the possible development of relationships far beyond the office. The best option is if the news about your novel, will immediately be news about your upcoming marriage or decision about cohabitation. But this is very difficult to achieve, because usually gossip goes ahead of the event.
Conclusion.
As a man usually provides signs of attention, we tried to look at examples. But every man is also an individual, capable of a variety of actions and exploits. Therefore, we can safely wait for unforeseen circumstances. Also, we remember that to show attention a man can not only in his personal life, but also in the work life. Without this, not a single team can do. To maintain communication without going beyond, and not to give cause for action, first of all watch for yourself, and for how exactly your attention is shown. You must be morally ready to fight back or continue the relationship, depending on your wishes, but not in front of your joint employees. By the way a man shows signs of attention, one can learn a lot about him, and understand how relations will develop in the future, and whether negative consequences can be possible. Be vigilant and attentive, rely on your intuition, and then you will succeed.