It is believed that flirting is a form of negotiation, starting from the moment of attracting the attention of a person of the opposite sex. Attraction of attention occurs due to certain gestures, facial expressions, movements, more known in psychology as body language. Often this brings more results than simple conversations.
So, let's analyze these techniques in more detail.
So how does a girl attract the young man's attention?
First, you need to clearly define for yourself what type of men for a girl is more attractive. They need to concentrate their attention and efforts on them. You need to clearly understand for yourself what attracts him more: appearance or his inner world. Often girls, like men themselves, look only at external characteristics, forgetting about the soul of a person and his values. And this is quite important. Therefore, one should not look only at external signs, since real men are most often hidden not under the most plausible mask. As they say, a man should be a little more beautiful than a monkey. But of course you do not need to go to extremes and look for exactly that. Simply, many women believe that the more sympathetic the man, the more likely he will spend his life with one chosen one. Although there are always exceptions. For the correct definition of the type of man, psychologists advise you to take a sheet of paper and record on it the masculine qualities, previously dividing them into 3 groups. The first group should consist of those qualities that a woman can not do without, the second one is desirable qualities, and the third one is acceptable ... Psychologists recommend to constantly refer to this list when a candidate for the hand and heart appears in your life.
Secondly, it is necessary to tune in to the very acquaintance with a man, and only then try to attract the attention of a young man. You do not need to constantly say that it's a pier, it's time to lose weight and the skin is flabby .... so you will not attract his attention. To attract a young man's attention to himself, one does not need to cling to the past, feel sorry or be ashamed of something. It is important to believe that in your life there will certainly be a person who will suit you on all the groups from the list. And there are, believe me. Most often, the problem is that we do not correctly prioritize and do not look at people who come to our way. Drive away all negative thoughts and emotions. This is your primary task to attract the attention of the new man. To do this, you must put on the sheet of paper all the bad thoughts, and then throw in the fire, as if saying goodbye to them. This will raise your spirits, since during communication with a man it is unforgivable to be sad and be discouraged. Behave yourself cheerfully and at ease. This is the best assistant in attracting the attention of men.
Thirdly, remember that low self-esteem is your enemy, which prevents a girl from attracting the attention of a young person, drive him ... Robustness generates fear, the fear of being rejected, and it will not lead to anything good! If your new friend does not go to the contact, it does not mean that you are bad or scary, no, just you are not in his taste. After all, not all men seem attractive to you. So why blame yourself? Be yourself and your young man surely will come to you. Continue the search. Take risks and do not be afraid!
After all of the above, you can leave your shelter and go in search of your betrothed. It can be any place, from the street to any event. It is useful in all respects to attend sports clubs, where usually without men at all. Visit more often and visit parties. Let your friends know that you are now free and ready for new meetings. And maybe they have candidates?
Fourth, be noticeable, being always in the center of the room. But remember the golden rule of flirting - an excellent appearance.
Men rarely confess, and women do not know that they are attracted by the specific smells of women, to which they go, like mice to cheese. And smile. Oh yeah! Remember one truth: your smile works wonders. Smile more often and the world will smile at you in return.