However, once you decide to give such an announcement, immediately the question in your head is: how to formulate this announcement? To peck the very one you are waiting for.
Who is author? Women, giving ads on acquaintance, can be divided into four main types:
Desperate - this is the first type of a single woman who wants to get acquainted. It includes women who are deeply aware of the bitterness of loneliness and are ready to sacrifice to find a friend, some of their habits in order to create a family. Such a category of women does not go to clubs, cafes, streets and all kinds of parties in the hope of getting to know each other. Firstly, they think that it's best to recognize a person by letters, and secondly, if a man does not answer a letter, she will be insured from humiliation to prop the wall by the dancefloor all the evening. These women are very critical about their appearance and their abilities. A typical ad for a single woman of this type looks very modest and written in despair. This immediately characterizes a woman who has no illusions and special claims to her chosen one.
Energetic - the second type of a single woman who wants to get acquainted. This single woman is very nice to herself, and is not afraid to visit crowded places in search of the chosen one. She writes an ad to the newspaper not from despair, but simply on the basis that this option is no worse than the others. She writes a very energetic ad, which is fully consistent with her essence. She thinks she is worthy of a fine man. And this single woman is really worthy of it!
Proud - the third type. As a rule, this woman is not alone. But her existing relationships for some reason do not suit her, and she puts an ad in the newspaper, hoping for a possible big win. The declaration of such a woman usually contains great claims to a partner. She has a choice, but she does not immediately stop at someone specific, continuing to apply for the ad, in the hope that someone will get better. Usually these are beautiful women, who value highly material goods and their appearance.
Narcissistic is the fourth type of a single woman. This lady is absolutely devoid of complexes. For example, she crazily like black temperamental Italians. She will write in the ad that she is a blonde with the feet of Sharon Stone and wants to get acquainted with the Italian. She will be written and ten years after the publication of such an announcement. True, hardly among the writers there will be at least one Italian.
And who is the winner? The latter category, strangely enough, wins much less than women of the first type. Sociologists argue that women who advertise their appearance and their dignity, as well as making specific demands on the future chosen, receive incomparably less letters than those who placed more modest announcements in the newspaper. Psychologists explain this by the fact that men are afraid of their inconsistency with the idealized image, and not to get refused, do not even try to write. And worthy women do not receive letters from men who would certainly be interested in them. Women of the first type receive the greatest number of letters.
Men like modest, clever, not putting out special claims ladies. The third type of women, as a rule, receive little letters. The self-confidence and calmness of these women are felt by men from a distance. The last two types of single women find themselves elected by correspondence very rarely. And it's very important, do not give your home address and phone - it's better to have a personal box. Good luck!