Many women remain lonely, despite the fact that they want to build a close relationship and create a family. Although there are some who directly claim that they do not need a marriage. In any case, when you do not yet have a partner, it means - you do not want it to appear, consciously or subconsciously. Consider 11 reasons why women are left alone.
1. Work and Career
What kind of woman would want to be with her constantly next to the man? Only one that does not know yet how much it can achieve itself. However, the lady on the post of chief has already realized that she can provide for herself, and to marry the prostitution of a sexual partner is not necessary and prefers to devote all her time to work.
Everything is simple and understandable in a career: worked for a month, paid a salary not a small one, they also gave a premium, that's all - a woman is provided with everything necessary from products to various accessories. If you do not have everything at work, then you can say "because I'm a woman," and you will not be condemned as a man in a similar situation. The collapse in business is not as serious as the crash of everyone, because it's easier to run away to work.
2. All men are alcoholics and idiots
Some women claim that today there are no normal muzhchin: they or alcoholics, or goats, or already have their own family and there is not a single purpose to look for a good man. So said the grandmother and mother, this program is deeply penetrated into the brain and acts throughout life. As long as you think so, the world around you will be just such men, and you will have no doubts about your rightness. To remain lonely, it is worth only looking for a lot of shortages in every man you meet, and talk about it, then loneliness will last a lifetime. You wanted this?
3. The personal space
In family relationships there is no need, if you are so used to your daily routine and personal space. After all, to create a common space with a man, it is worth changing oneself, being able to negotiate, learning to talk about one's desires, and also taking care of it, its desires. However, this is all problematic, why so much effort, if you know the experience of married friends that this all hardly will justify itself. Men are inaccurate, they throw socks and do not clean after themselves, it is difficult for them to get them to repair a tap or rosette, etc. No, it's better to keep personal comfort and not to strain again.
4. Satisfaction of wishes
A woman expects that as soon as she meets her second half, she will have more happiness in her life, since her husband is necessary to satisfy different desires. But for some reason, it always surprises you, when the same is waiting for you and a man (he also wants to be loved). In this case, only two scenarios are possible. The first is when after a beautiful candy-flower period it turns out that both of you are egoists who want happiness from the partner (shi), not wanting to give anything in return. The second is when a woman knows in advance that she has to give out her relationships and understands that she is not ready for such an interaction. She prefers to remain lonely and live only for herself, without caring for her ears.
5. Low self-esteem is the cause of loneliness
Another reason to remain alone is to consider yourself to be ugly, clumsy, and so on. This is very convenient, since it is always possible to find the culprit (mom, dad, genes, radiation), which means that it does not depend on the woman. It is also very convenient to be unhappy, since there will always be a kind person who will regret, warm up with warmth and maybe fall in love. It is worth noting that those who are sorry, do not like, they are pretty quick to forget, since they bring a certain discomfort. Therefore, "do not" change something and become beautiful, interesting, because in order to remain a single person, it is enough to have a low self-esteem, to be unhappy.
6. The prince on the white
Very often a woman expects that she will meet the same prince of a fairy tale - the ideal and the limit of all her dreams. After all, she already had a lot of lists of his positive qualities and external data. But it does not appear on the horizon. And the fact is that you consider yourself as such an ideal and manly with you only perfect. How can you let a person into your life who is constantly next door, who knows your shortcomings, who knows how to tell about them at an improper moment? Admit it, you do not want to lose your crown, do you? Therefore wait for such an ideal prince, who every 10 minutes looks like himself in love with a mirror, and whose crown is the same size as you.
7. Waste of time
Close relationships devour a lot of time, you still have more time for something interesting and new. When there is a bright stage of the relationship, then there is still a lot of work with the shortcomings of the partner who found out. And we will have to start a new job without a glimpse of pleasure. At this time, and the accusations of the man begin that he spoiled your whole life. It is better to run away from all this in loneliness, where there is always time at all.
9. Sexual relations
Many know how much sex is needed for men, and also how much a woman wants romance and love. Only those women who want, are ready for a child, and also those who have sexual concerns can not be alone. If you diligently avoid all that is associated with sexual relations, men feel it and try to get along with you. Denial of sex is a wonderful occasion for loneliness!
8. "Instructions for use"
Some women (like some men) do not know the "instructions for use", are confident that they know everything about their partner. As a result, they give the man what they invented themselves, and not at all what they need, after which they are surprised: "Why does not he appreciate what I do for him?" But when they understand how great this work is, to study a completely alien the language on which the men are spoken, they prefer to often remain alone.
10. The need to justify
Always the relationship is like a dance: in order to dance together, you need to agree on what rhythm, under what music, because from your every step, thought, action depends on how your man does and on the contrary - you also depend on him. And this state of some tension in your relationship. And because one is very convenient, because you do not have to synchronize your actions with a man, do not report, and also negotiate.
11. His relatives
If you develop long-term relationships, always, early or late, you will need to have contacts with his relatives. But you managed to manage with your own family, and here there is an additional burden. No, it's best to remain single, than to be with a partner, whose mother (or father) is constantly finding fault, in every possible way try to get into your relationship.
Now you begin to realize that relationships are not only love, romance shown in films, but also serious work? Many believe that it's easier to be one - do not strain your relations every day. And you are sure that the comfort of loneliness - this is what most important thing is worth living for?