All the time with you. A characteristic sign of the desire of all lovers is to be always near your loved one. And at the very beginning of the relationship, when only they start, this is especially noticeable. This is the easiest way to determine how much a man in love with you, and in love at all.
If a man to you is clearly not indifferent, it will be expressed in:
- a man will look for any excuse to see you;
- "randomly" to be in the same place as you: a club, an exhibition, a guest;
- it is not difficult for a man to cancel another meeting for the sake of meeting you;
- organizes meetings on the nature, in a cafe, in the cinema.
He thinks only of you. Another suitable way to find out what you mean for men is to pay attention to how he behaves in your presence. If you are really dear to him, on a visit, most likely, a man will necessarily want to sit next to him. And if he is in another part of the room, then you will invariably catch his loving gaze on him. Communicating in a circle of friends, most often the appeal of your love object will be directed at you, as if not noticing others.
Pay attention to the words. How do you know what you mean to a man by his speech? Most often a man in love often utters your name - now it is synonymous with the word "beloved", which lacks the determination to pronounce aloud. Maybe his lexicon is filled with diminutive caressing "sun," "fish," "kitten" in relation to you. In your presence, a man does not rude, does not use obscene language, tries to follow his speech, so as not to cause you negative emotions.
Notice the behavior. How do you know what you mean for him, by his behavior? And then everything is very simple. If you behave in a strange man's behavior, not the same as usual - definitely you are not indifferent to him. For example, he:
- laughs louder than usual, or, on the contrary, tries to hide his emotions;
- tells about his old exploits or begins to show off;
- Worried when his voice starts to tremble, breathing becomes quicker, when he rubs his palms, showing other obvious signs;
- looking for adventure, attracts the attention of others to show off the best side.
If you are still unfamiliar with a man, know that your mutual friends will notice his changes and something strange happening with him in your presence. And, of course, they will want to share this with you.
Also, the real feelings of men are when you give the same amount of love as you receive. You have no sense of limitation in love. When a man is jealous of you, cares, when you are sick, he cares for you. A man is important to your opinion, agrees to give in order that you are happy. In disputes with someone, he always takes your side.
If a man is interested in your life - what do you do, what are your worries, hobbies, this means that you mean a lot to him. When he enjoys not only your merits, but also is touched by shortcomings. I did not confess to love right away, it shows that I have been thinking for a long time about how to do this and what a suitable moment will be for this. Loves you to kiss. If subscribes to sms with phrases - "whole", "love", "bored", "with love" or the like.
Afraid to lose you. The constant desire to touch you, watch, have sex (though this can only happen at the beginning of your acquaintance).
But the doubts are affected by the feelings of a man, when he does not want to let you into a certain part of his life. When you feel that something does not finish. When he does not want to talk about past love, even if you told about your own. This indicates a lack of confidence in you. If a man does not want to take care of you, or does not think at all, when you really need help. When he decides everything himself, he does not listen to your opinion. He does not want to show you to his friends, or even drags you around with him - to the bar, to football or fishing. If after the first or second meeting you hear a lot of compliments and love confessions.
Here are a few ways to find out what you mean for a man at a non-verbal level. As you know, men have many specific gestures, for which it is not difficult to guess his intentions. Most of these gestures are unconscious. It is important to recognize them correctly.
If the eyebrows are raised. When we have an object that attracts attention, our eyebrows unconsciously rise and fall. This happens regardless of age, in any place, in a person of any gender.
Lips a little ajar. If a man opens his mouth, the moment you meet with a look, then he likes you.
Nostrils slightly enlarged. When the eyebrows are raised, the mouth is slightly open and the nostrils are broadened to a reasonable extent - this gives the person a friendly look. And the opposite state of the face of a man says that he, most likely, is bored.
When a man stands straight, pulling his stomach, wants to show himself in all its glory. Legs on shoulder width, a sign of sexuality. And even if he is sitting with his legs apart, he shows that he has something to offer the lady.
The look of the man stops on the pretty parts of the woman's body, thereby making it clear that she treats you as a sexual partner.
When the socks of the shoes of the man are directed in your direction, he is interested in you. A man holds you by the shoulder or elbow, then he wants to be sure that you will not be lost in the crowd and most importantly, will thereby scare away potential intruders on you, because you are already next to a man.
If he offers his sweater or jacket. It says, as it were, that for him "What is mine, it's yours", besides it is proprietary, defending the gesture of a man. And, finally, a man has an excuse to appear on your horizon again, even if you just take your property.