In life, where there are two - without quarrels do not happen, even the most ideal relationship is not insured against quarrels. It is important that at the end of the quarrel there was no desire to finally and irrevocably not to see this person. But if by this quarrel you are going to the last point over the relationship, then come on. Do not let the enemy open their mouths, kindle a hassle for the whole history of communication, splash out all the anger, and in the end start to beat the dishes given by his mother.
Well, if you intend to end the quarrel peacefully, then do not recall old grievances, after all, there have been reconciliation after them, give the chance to speak out to your partner, but not raising your voice, since screaming and yelling never lead to anything good. Claims always exist and will be, as the relationship between you develops, and ideal people do not exist. But if there are unresolved issues between you, do not immediately tell them your friends, ask them for support and sympathy. Solve your problems yourself.
Quite often in life situations only a woman is able to first admit her mistakes or help her companion make the first step toward reconciliation. The woman is softer and kind and therefore always try to end the quarrel with reconciliation. He will be grateful to you and will always meet you. Swear must be able and quickly move away from quarrels. Then quarrels will not be so noticeable in your relationship. You can not remain silent for a while during the quarrel, by this you only let your anger absorb yourself and heat up the situation, which can lead to a deadlock. Learn to forgive. Even if you do not forgive forgivable. It is peculiar for a man to be mistaken.
The behavior of a person is especially unpredictable during a quarrel, it often happens that partners who have become accustomed over the years to each other begin to criticize and ridicule not only the acquired shortcomings, but also physical, which of course everyone has. But, after all, you need to try not to go down to it. And then the endless mutual criticism to stop will be problematic. Think, judge, maybe in this abuse you have your share of blame.
How not to swear, with the darling you need to remember a few rules:
If there is a possibility to avoid the emergence of a conflict situation, no matter how hard it was, try to do so. Better a bad world than a good quarrel.If the "clarification of relations" did begin, speak calmly, without raising your voice. Screaming still does not achieve anything. And most importantly, try to keep the tears. Guys do not stand this.
Do not remember the old grievances, because after them there was already reconciliation.
Do not threaten. This is the worst attempt to achieve what is desired by swearing in a short cut, not to negotiate, but through blackmail, assault and aggression.Having quarreled with the darling, learn not to blame another person. The words are addressed to your dear: "You are to blame for everything", is regarded as terror. At the same time, you do not put forward clear requirements, but force a partner to feel guilty. A sense of humiliation and wrong do not create a relationship.
It is important to remember that a man and a woman are two poles of one continent, with different views with different emotional states, and accordingly with different understandings of one problem. Learn to be wiser and calm to perceive all difficulties. There are no winners in quarrels, everyone loses. It must be remembered that war and peace in relations depends only on women, it regulates, and only it is able to soften the blow.