How often on the Internet can you find your love?

As you know, our "Vkontakte" and "Classmates" will be younger than their foreign counterparts, such as Facebook and MySpace. It is noteworthy that in a relatively short period of their existence Russian social networks managed to win the glory of projects, which are often used "not for their intended purpose." At least, according to the originally intended purpose - searching by name, last names and places of residence and studying their friends, colleagues and friends - social networking sites are used in 7-10% of cases. As a rule, for patrons of "contacts" these projects began to be something like "Krutomer" or other dating sites.

As a result, the social network, whose goal was the slogan "Find Your Worldwide", turns out to be true in 2-3 years of existence by a group of perverts of very different orientations and sex maniacs. More precisely, the company of normal people, a little diluted by a group of "adventurers" in a sexual way. But how often on the Internet can you find your love?

It is interesting, however, the research of Russian sociologists says that people usually fall into the trap, which are indicated in the section "The purpose of acquaintance" not for "communication," but "for serious relations." This is a fact, paradoxically.

However, if the idea of ​​finding the perfect guy and matured, then everything is not so bad. Now not everyone knows that a large number of potential competitors on the social. networks that are looking for romantic adventures instead of their classmates and classmates, use or photos from Burzhunet, less often their own, brought to the ideal by the program, which received the nickname "Photojazz".

It is noteworthy that the opinion polls of those who found their second half via the Web say that the "find" was found just on projects like "Odnoklassniki", than on specialized dating sites. In this case, the ranks of those who wish to "virtual flirtation" and "sex without obligations" turn out to be an order of magnitude smaller.
Illusions

Let's pay attention to the fact that psychologists talk about, but which is not much sanctified by the owners of such projects and their ilk. Our nature is such that it has a "habit" to fill in the unknown sides of the interlocutor and the possible "half" with ideas about one's own ideal. Most of all, this affects kK times on social networks.

Getting acquainted in the Russian Internet with a young man with not the most high-quality photo on the page of his questionnaire, you start to think that this promiscuity turns out to be in fact an unearthly beauty. Seeing a good photo with a macho image and talking to him through chat, you most likely imagine that he is talking with Pavaroti's bass, and only at a meeting it may turn out that the sounds issued by "handsome" are far from the voice of the late Lucho.

In the English-speaking soc. More than two thirds of the heads of British corporations are registered.

Even after finding out all the "superficial" sides of the coin, you will not be able to "see" a person as he will be in reality. However, nobody thinks about this for some reason, sincerely hoping that for the fifth (twentieth, hundredth, ...) time, the guy will be what the subconscious presents him to you.

Another point that should be taken into account when making the profile of the ideal girl and trying to find her ideal in the questionnaires of representatives of the opposite half of the sex. In the section "The purpose of acquaintance" it will be better not to mention "for a serious relationship" -it this field will be empty, so as not to scare off potential "fishermen". Likewise, you do not need to scour only on questionnaires, the owners of which "honestly and sincerely" noted that they are ready here, on foreign or our social networks "to have children" and "marry."
Gateway to a different world

Right on the Internet, a serious relationship is a myth, the level of trust which Copperfield himself will be able to envy. This will be the answer to the question of how often on the Internet you can find your love. You can not achieve serious mutual feelings, while not looking up from your favorite "iron" and not becoming directly communicating. However, people believe this illusion much more strongly for some reason than, for example, in the tricks of a famous illusionist.

Having read the previous paragraph, the majority will say unequivocally: "The delirium is full. No healthy person will believe this. " Well, let's give an example of three years ago. Balanced, mentally healthy, standing on the job in good standing and having a good reputation with her neighbors and acquaintances, a resident of Missouri, Drew Laurie led somehow on the MySpace questionnaire.

It would seem that everything is simple. Only the questionnaire in "my space" described not the mother of a teenage girl, but a young man. The thing is that a couple of weeks before, her daughter had quarreled with her neighbor Megan Meyer and her friends. "Careful mother" with the help of the questionnaire avenged gracefully and cruelly: flirting a few weeks with Meyer on behalf of the "online macho", she wrote to her that "it's better to part", adding word for word: "The world will be better without you." After reading this message and thinking, the girl hanged herself in her bedroom. The biggest "tin" of the story is that the Supreme Court of Los Angeles could not find an article in which Drew could be imprisoned. It turned out to be a "fraud" with a short period of time.

By the way, just this case was the cause of a wave of dissatisfaction with the Americans soc. networks. Among the dissatisfied, not only ordinary people. So, in the United States has already developed a movement "for the security of the Internet." It is headed by Marsali Hancock. Speaking about social networks, she noted that the latter are fraught with a lot of dangers and minors can not have access to Twitter, Facebook, MySpace and similar services.