What you need a girl in a relationship with a guy

Serious relations between the sexes are born not immediately. Often it takes too long to find someone with whom they really want to tie such long-term, and maybe eternal, relationships. At the same time, for sure, you noticed that this desire to the girls, and maybe even a need, comes a little earlier than to the guys. And all because we grow up a bit faster, we understand that in this life it's hard. And, perhaps, we need something else from the person with whom we meet. In the article "What a girl needs in a relationship with a guy" we will try to dig deep into our psychology and understand: why do all the girls wait for these very relationships and so early want to have at least an embryo of a future family?

So, what does a girl need in a relationship with a guy? The answer is simple: if the girl is already grown up, if she has walked up with the boys and decided to choose one person, then she felt that with this guy she will be like a stone wall. After all, every girl needs to feel protected, but who else will be a reliable support for him, if not a favorite guy?

The desire to create a family or, at least, to develop a serious relationship, is mainly based on the maternal instinct inherent in every woman. You noticed that some girls get married early and start babies, some are "in old maidens", and not always because no one takes them under their reliable male wing. We also do not talk about those cases when the family is being built hastily because of the girl's pregnancy. We are talking about a deliberate and serious step that takes place regardless of age. It's just that one of us is growing up before, but this mother's instinct is not in a hurry to someone. However, nature knows best when and who needs to have a serious relationship.

Of course, the above-described reason is slightly idealized. Nowadays everything is a bit more complicated. Here, our parents - they lived by other canons, there were much fewer unwanted pregnancies, and the marriage was valued as something indestructible and stable. Now, at times, marriages are created chaotically because of the "wanted holiday" - and, as you know, for a long time such families do not exist. Such a frivolous reason can not become a reliable background for the family.

What else can a girl need from a guy, except for a sense of security? Perhaps we will respond a little mercantilely, but there is a reason for that too. Money is what attracts many girls, especially those who grew up in dysfunctional families. The lack of money and the desire to get out of the cramped room you had to share with your siblings all your life, sometimes proves to be stronger than any feelings. And the girls, abandoning the hope for mutual love and wealth, prefer to use the fallen happy event and choose only wealth, without love.

If a girl feels that she needs a boyfriend, this does not necessarily mean that she wants to create a family with him and give birth to children. Perhaps, the girl is still slightly vzbalmoshna and it just attracts the appearance of a man? It is not excluded that she wants to achieve some popularity in certain circles, and intends to use the right guy for this. Such a union can be mutually beneficial, however, hardly strong. You yourself understand why. After all, having achieved their goal, the girl will no longer need to accompany this man - she will need another, "more abruptly", because ambitions are not in place.

However, something we have completely moved away in the direction of cynicism and commercialism. And, despite the fact that such cases occur more often in our life, this does not mean that nothing bright and good in our world is left, and all relationships are deceitful and prudent.

After all, every girl in a relationship with a beloved boy needs, first of all, tenderness and mutual understanding, affection and love. I want him to worry about you and call every half hour - even if it seems to irritate you, but still such a care will be very pleasant inside! I want him to gently cover you with a blanket in the middle of the night and kiss him in the temple, thinking that you are already sleeping soundly. I want him to determine your status in the eyes and understand all your desires.

But there are other types of girls, quite the opposite. Let's call this psychological type "female mother" conditionally. Why the "mother-woman"? Because such a girl in a relationship does not need a man to take her for a small child, perform all her whims and read in the eyes. No, everything is completely opposite: she needs to take care of her boy (by the way, this is not such a rare phenomenon). Such a girl needs to care for someone and educate. She will nourish the man, improving her culinary skills in order to arrange for him another feast of the stomach. She in the evenings will monotonously knit a warm winter scarf for her child. Will polish up the shine of the floors and furniture, so that the friends of her men said: "My God, what kind of business do you have!" - and such words will bring her inexpressible joy. Only the trouble is - not all men appreciate this type of women, someone needs a slightly bitchy lady. And that the "mother-woman" would be the best option for marriage, they understand only when the moment is already lost.

There are vampire girls. No, this does not mean that such a woman really drinks blood ... but she eats energy, preferably male. For such a girl there is nothing better than to command someone. And it's doubly more pleasant if it's a representative of the stronger sex. She is looking for a "rag", a man who is in love with her to the ears and who is ready for it for almost everything. With such a man she is comfortable - a vampire girl does not like to strain without a reason. But not every guy, no matter how weakly he was, will allow the girl to scoff at herself so much. Therefore, this reason, rather, from the list of "morbidly-unnatural".

And, basically, every girl wants her boyfriend to be a real man: strong, capable of making important decisions, one that does not offend and does not give offense. And so you want that every girl found in her life is such a beloved and a real man - because this is simple, but such a huge female happiness.