You live something, dream about something, and day after day you live with some of your desires and your needs, not thinking about anything. But one day comes the day that turns your whole life - you realize that you will soon become a mother. The state of pregnancy is an incomparable state that can not be described in words, it can only be felt.
This is not only physical changes in the body, no, first of all, these are psychological changes. After all, before you did everything yourself, you did not have to care about anyone. And then you realize that soon the worries will increase, but you have to forget about yourself almost completely! And it's not even that! It is very difficult, though joyful, to realize that in your life such grandiose changes are coming.
A lot of fears accompany pregnancy - the fear of childbirth, the fear of what will be the attitude of the husband to you after the birth of the child, the fear of the baby's health. And this is not yet complete
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Now I laughingly recall how every evening before going to bed she would say to her husband: "If I die during childbirth, do not leave the child." Then I was not at all laughing. I was really scared. My husband stoically listened to my whining every day! I can not believe that he had the patience for this.
While I was pregnant, I re-read a lot of articles on the Internet, books, magazines about the care of the child, it seemed to me that I know everything! But then I still did not realize the whole responsibility of motherhood and could not imagine what it really means to be a mother.
But the time has come, and I gave birth. And now, it seems, I know the answer to this question.
Being a mother is hard work, but it's never ungrateful. You understand this when your little lump, your own and the most beautiful continuation of you lies in bed and faithfully looks into your eyes. You are everything to him, you can not betray him, because he trusts you unlimitedly and completely depends on you.
To be a mother is to be able to step on your throat to your desires for the desires of another, such a defenseless being. You can not leave everything and go with a friend in a cafe or with your husband at the cinema. Because now you are responsible for your crumbs.
To be a mother is to be able to cope with your emotions and overcome the desire to get angry with your baby when he can not calm down. And instead, just calm him down and caress.
Being a mother is always believing in your child. To know that he is special, that he is the best of all and no one in the world better than him just can not be!
To be a mother is to anticipate and understand the desires of your child. And always try to fulfill them, sacrificing absolutely everything!
To be a mother is to fall in love with your husband again, not for some romantic things, but looking at how beautiful he is and how he looks great in this new quality.
Being a mom is always a pain in the heart when watching programs about crime and child cruelty. And eternal thoughts about how to "save" your blood.
To be a mother is to cry with happiness at the sight of each new achievement of your small but at the same time such a huge WHERE.
To be a mother is to understand, finally, your parents and forgive them all your childish grievances. Understand all their prohibitions and realize that with your child you will do the same.
Only now, after the birth of my daughter, I realized what real happiness is. Happiness is BEING MOTHER. No one can take it away and it will always be with you. You can betray a man and fate can turn away from you, but your child will always be with you. He will always be an incentive for you to live, live, live - in spite of any difficulties and circumstances!
Being a mom is a job every day, but you will never get tired of it and never regret it!