And the first rule, this is what: just do not need everyone around you to love you. You can not adapt to everyone and please everyone.
It all started with the fact that one day my life was filled with a frown. Nothing pleased me. And life seemed to be not sugar-free. But this happens. And you realize that it's time to change something ...
Love. This word resembled disappointment, misunderstanding, inattention, hatred ...
We often want to change, convince, remake people. But this is the deepest mistake!
So what did I want to change? And I wanted to change the person who was next to me. I altered and altered, but every time it made me furious.
I have persuaded others, but the world can not be changed. Everyone perceives it differently. Each of us has our own views. And nobody wants to put up with other opinions. But how to make people understand you, loved, respected?
And the first rule, this is what: just do not need everyone around you to love you. You can not adapt to everyone and please everyone.
To get Love, you need to learn how to give it away.
And I continued to believe, to prove. I stood still. And she continued to believe all her convictions without letting in new ones.
No, with conservatism spreading like an epidemic, I will never discover anything new and profound! And nothing will help me to move forward! And this is the Second Rule, which I had to embody to me.
And now I gradually began to abandon many things. I began to change. Change the internal views. And outwardly I became different. From a brunette I turned into a blonde.
Why do we think and look, we dig others? Why we are looking for advice and answers in relationships in books, magazines .... If there is only one answer, you need to look at yourself.
Look from the outside to yourself. Change only yourself.
Only you yourself are able to make yourself happy or sad.
Many tips, many people say that you need to do this and that. When we are told, be sure, but how? When they say be strong, how to become strong?
There is only one cure. Self-expression.
You just need to tell yourself more often that you need to go ahead. Stop being surrounded by people who are pulling us down. Of course, people can not turn away, but when you change, these people will leave you.
And in love, do not try to change a loved one, because turning it into another person, remember that maybe this new person will not want to stay with you.
And in conclusion I want to wish all of Love. And remember, when two people enter into a relationship, the life of each of them should improve, but not the other way around.
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