Beloved substitute or betrayal
Betrayal is hardly possible to forgive or understand, and if this betrayal of a loved one, the more passionately beloved one, then even more. Rana from the knife, which is stabbed in your back by the closest person, brings seafood, and it is not surprising that there comes a desire to take revenge. Often victims of such a mountain avengers are cars, so adored by men. On nihostavlyayut exposing inscriptions, the cry of the soul, as they say, and some scorns of conscience scrape or look to break the glass.
If the hands are drawn by an ax or a phial with poison, then it is better to choose a light laxative or simply dismiss this image or photo, which can, by giving vent to emotions, break into small pieces and throw it into the trash can, where he, the traitor himself, .
Although revenge can be approached creatively, everything depends on your character and imagination. There is a history when a woman discovered that a woman uses the services of a dating site. She did not start scandals and start hysterics. She, on the contrary, herself registered on this site, charmed her husband with her virtual personality (of course, that her husband thought she was communicating with a beautiful stranger) and obtained an invitation for a date. I can only imagine the man's surprise when his own wife appeared on a date, and even with his son.
So before you go on about emotions and take revenge on a person, think about it, because you loved him and not just because you had a lot of good. And do not forget to check the veracity of your information. Maybe there was no betrayal, and you already had time to do stupid things and offend a loved one.
Chiefs zaubovinenie or injustice
When we take revenge on the boss, we do not always take this seriously, but act on the principle: a trifle, but nice. But if we substitute the authorities for which we work, we can do harm to ourselves in the future. Nestoit forever burn bridges and loudly slam the door, maybe with the passage of time you will need the connections, contacts or you will be able to return to the former workplace.
So before you take revenge on your boss, think about whether you will ever need it in the future. It is not necessary to scatter ties, they will always be useful.
Colleagues for what they have substituted
Another common motive for revenge - small squabbles in the workplace. But in the pursuit of the eternal "who is who" think, is it not too much to waste precious time and energy on these rat runs. Why heat up relations in the team, it's better to try to adjust the atmosphere in the team. If your detractors get their own shouts, it's worth behaving extremely modestly and politely. It is difficult to be mean game with a tolerant, well-bred person. Believe me, sometimes calmness also annoys you no less than screaming.
So, the conclusion suggests itself: once you spend so much time working, it's extremely irrational to spend it on small mischiefs.Lets get new friends at work.
Partners for the fact that they
Business laws are severe, it is difficult to find a place for friendly relations. In pursuit of financial gain, your partners, whom you trusted, can easily deceive you. To avoid the desire to avenge the financial loss of immoral damage, it is better to think about the possible risks and pre-agree on everything. But it is not necessary to trust partners unconditionally, in our time, civilized honest business is a rarity.
So before signing contracts, look at the future partner and carefully check his business history. Reputation is still very important in our time, and it is unlikely that a serious person will dare to risk taking risks.
How to get revenge?
Revenge is different. She can completely absorb a person, for years forcing him to hunt down the object of his hatred, nurturing insidious plans to find and hit the weakest point. Such revenge destroys the human, makes of him an obsessive, who is unable to feel anything other than the desire to cause pain. And it does not matter, because of which it all began, whether the misconduct of a person was so serious or, over the years, was offended, increasing in progression. A person does not understand that he himself is becoming a victim.
There is another revenge, as they say in a state of passion. Fully aware of their own actions, people commit insane acts, spoil the property, substitute, in every possible way they mock the person. This is more like a hooligan's antics of a not quite adequate teenager.
But if you can not curb negative emotions, you can use them in a different direction. Let your offense not deplete you, but on the contrary, will become an incentive for achieving new heights. You were framed by colleagues at work, made to feel full of a gift? And you will become the best professional in this field. Favorite person betrayed you, changed, left the family? So find yourself another, better, someone who is able to really appreciate you at their true worth, whom you really love, because real pure feelings do not leave room for treason. Only to do this is not worthy, as they say, but sincerely.
Sometimes inaction can become the best revenge for your enemies. They acted badly and their conscience is likely to chew for what has been committed, therefore they expect mutual resentment from you to somehow justify themselves beforehand. Like, he himself is so feminine, and I did the right thing, that I substituted him. Well, let them not receive such an excuse, let them know that they are nothing more to you than an empty place, that their cunning plans are small and can not harm you. Do not waste your attention on those who are trying to annoy you. It is better to call once again to those who really care for you and love.
If you want to release steam, there are lots of methods for this. The main thing is that your actions were aimed at creating, not destroying. Do something useful, significant. Go to the priutvolteraterom, help the old neighbor to make repairs, plant a garden around your house. The main thing is that in order to look back, you did not regret what was done, and maybe, on the contrary, you deserved someone's gratitude.
Before you spray paint on his car or cut your favorite costume into tatters, imagine, would not it be embarrassing if others learn about this confession? Do not you look in the eyes of familiar people full of hysterics? Remember, revenge is the lot of the weak, so let's be strong.