There is no doubt that for a woman to become a single for a man is a difficult task, but this does not mean that you should give up, complain and do nothing. Try to make at least a few steps to the goal of becoming a woman, from which a man will never leave.
Be different
Coco Chanel also said that if a woman wants to become irreplaceable, then she must always change. This rule, which is not surprising, works and a gray-haired man. Constantly change - be a little girl who cares and attends to, and a passionate lover who is relaxed in bed and loves sexual experiments, and an excellent housewife who keeps the house tidied up and orderly, and a well-bred and pious lady who can smile so that the man for her go into the fire and into the water. And most importantly - stay out of one role for too long, even if you think that the role of the man is like.
Accept a man such as he is
Do not constantly reproach him that he does not meet your imagined ideal of a man. It is not necessary to stick out its shortcomings - it's best, if you really do not like this feature in your partner, then try and tactfully and softly say about it and necessarily offer an alternative for action. And, of course, praise all his dignity (by the way, it works not only with men, but with children).
Be reliable
Build your behavior so that your man knows what you can rely on in a difficult moment, and you support him both in joy and in sorrow. And even if he made a mistake and is guilty of this, then do not bring down his criticism, it's better to try to find words to encourage him.
Love yourself
A woman who does not love herself, for a man, can only represent a utilitarian interest - only as a free cook, a housekeeper, etc. Take care of yourself and pamper yourself, do not forget to spend a little time and insult.
Do not be afraid to quarrel
It sounds strange enough, but conflicts are still one source of energy for men and women. The most important thing in a dispute is to discuss only a specific single cause of the quarrel, without using such turns as "dates always ..." and the like, that is, not generalizing and not transferring the fault completely to the partner.
Do not be a man to a friend
Approximately one year after your relationship started, the technological processes in the body that caused your passion, gradually go down. Many women at that moment have a desire to become a man of their own, a faithful companion and good friend, to adopt his interests, etc. Although the first look is a good idea, however, the consequences can be quite netakimi, which are drawn to a woman in dreams.
First of all, if two people have the same interests, then they can quickly exhaust all topics for conversation and get bored with each other. And secondly, sometimes a woman is so addicted to wanting to become a man as a friend, that he ceases to experience sexual attraction to her, which is unlikely to please you.
Do not forget about sex
Nobody canceled sex in marriage. He is no less important than food and sleep. In this case, use imagination, do not let the sexual relations get tired of being boring and ordinary. Leave space for both planned and spontaneous sex.
Speak
Undoubtedly, it is hardly worthwhile, when you see your husband, immediately "throw out" everything that happened to you during the day, but if you are very much agitated, then you do not need to keep silent, hoping that he himself will guess about this swami to speak . Talk to your spouse (just do not confuse it with a friend) of all the things that interest you and excite you. But, please, forget this phrase as "dear, we need to talk!".
Take and give in equal parts
If you constantly sacrifice yourself, taking nothing in return, believing that you "must", that you should be sorry - stop it! This is not more than your illusion and in fact your man is in debt. If you constantly play a game of self-sacrifice, then gradually this debt becomes unbearable, and then a man can simply walk away. However, it is not necessary and always only "take" - a lousy man sooner or later may simply run out of resources, after which the relationship often also collapses. Therefore, the balance between "taking" and "giving" should be respected.