Others say that you should not be killed and waste time in vain for a person who does not even strive to be with you, but you naively believe that there is no one better in the world, and life with its absence is a continuous precipice ... I want to shout about my unbearable grief the whole world ... But, as they say, there are no situations without an exit, simply, either he does not suit you, or you do not want to reconcile with him, but nevertheless he is. So how to cope with unrequited love?
Of course, at first you just do not want to believe that the guy does not have a reciprocal feeling for you, you convince yourself day by day that he is afraid to show his feelings, or simply did not understand yet that he was in love with you . You start to look for the reason in yourself ... STOP! ENOUGH! You know, it's simply impossible to make love! Tearing yourself, you can not make it easier for anyone, and first of all yourself. Stop, think, whether all this is worth the effort that you are applying, to achieve an unknown goal for you. And answer for yourself the question, do you need this. Firstly, he is not one guy on the planet, and secondly, let him think it's perfect, but he has a lot of flaws, which you so masterfully mask yourself, yes, admit yourself, you just do not want to see them, thirdly , and most importantly, are you sure that this is love?
To begin with, evaluate your chosen one by an uninterested person. An easy way to do this: take a piece of paper and make a list of the positive and negative qualities of the lover, but only without emotions, drop them for a while. Become a fierce critic for him! Of course, it is possible that positive features will be much more negative. If this happens, then maybe you used your imagination? The ideal person does not exist. Realizing this, you just look at him as an ordinary guy, with his shortcomings and weaknesses, and not the macho you've been counting him for so long. But if you do not have enough of these arguments, we will continue to understand how to deal with love all the same.
You should minimize the likelihood of your meetings, even random ones. Do not call him about or without, stop discussing it with your friends, but just stop thinking about him. Look closely, suddenly a person standing next to you needs more attention than, someone who does not share your feelings. Look back - the world is so beautiful, and it has many wonderful people!
Switch to yourself, improve yourself, because, taking up unrequited love, you just forgot about yourself. It can be anything: dance, pool, theater. Perhaps there you will meet worthy of your love.
Now you are sitting, and you think that the grief that overtakes you is the greatest misfortune in the world, but you imagine that there are people who are much more unhappy than you. Someone loses loved ones, friends, and they can never be with them again, somebody is not allowed to contemplate this world, hear its beautiful sounds. Learn to appreciate what you have, because it can be so easy to lose.
Love, like a fleeting river, it runs, collides with pitfalls, breaks somewhere, but it always has a source - which gives your life meaning. It's hard to realize your defeat, especially if it's about love. But you can cope with love, the main thing is to believe in it yourself, to really look at things. I wish you good luck in love.