Love affects our feelings very much. As it was revealed by ancient doctors, love is a mental disorder and stupidity. Perhaps you will be surprised, but even now, love experiences are equated by doctors with illnesses.
A couple of years ago, an English youth, he suffered and suffered because of unhappy love that he simply could not go to work. After he was fired from his job for his absenteeism, he sued and won it. In court, unfortunate love was recognized as the fundamental reason for his absenteeism.
In Russia, this is unlikely to have passed, and not one court would have recognized as a good reason for his absenteeism, unhappy love. No matter how badly we feel and how much we do not suffer and suffer because of unhappy love, we still go to work, do business and survive as we can. It happens that unhappy love brings us just unbearable pain.
They say that love does not pass quickly, and we can suffer from it more than one year. Whether it is true or not, we will be able to find out only if we analyze our feelings. Perhaps, everything is not as bad as we think. Perhaps, we ourselves invent these feelings.
The first thing we need to understand for ourselves is what do we suffer from unhappy love or from loneliness? In fact, we are just afraid to be alone, as we are accustomed to having always been present, as we thought, by a loved one. First of all, we should not become isolated in ourselves and our grief. If you have an unhappy, unrequited love in life, you first need to talk to someone. I think that in your environment there will always be people who have experienced this once in their lives. Only they will be able to give you advice on how to cure themselves of unhappy love.
But most often it happens that we are locked in ourselves and do not want to talk to anyone. Although in this period of life, we really need the support of close people. For some reason, not everyone is able to tell about their experiences. So why is this happening?
As psychologists say at the time of the break with a loved one, we suffer from humiliation. When we learn that we are no longer loved, at this moment our pride is touched. When the relationship is broken, our self-esteem collapses. It seems to us that no one can love us anymore, and from this, we are very much suffering.
You must understand that love does not evaluate your qualities and does not indicate worthiness. And if you find out that you are no longer loved, this does not mean that you are stupid or ugly, there is no connection. In life, any person encounters at least once with unhappy love and this feeling can be experienced both as a model and as a housekeeper. Anyone can face this problem.
You have to understand that whatever you have not the merits and qualities, you can not keep love. When we lose our loved ones, we experience anger, anger, and even start thinking about revenge. But this is completely wrong and we must fight this feeling.
It often happens that people having broken off relationships, with each other, continue to cling to their unhappy love. And at this moment we do not understand at all that we are clinging not for love, but for our exalted experiences.
At such times you should not think about your own experiences. Remember the person with whom you had a relationship, think that you had a good and how much was bad. Think after, whether you need this relationship and really want to continue to experience this pain and humiliation. Maybe you are not at all ideal of your man, and you just did not meet that one. Life does not stop and you need to move on and not be afraid to let in your heart a new love.
I think that thanks to our advice, you can cure yourself of unhappy love.