But sometimes during the best sex, we can not completely relax and enjoy the process, we are overcome by problems, and this prevents us from fully enjoy. This problem is probably familiar to many women, let's think about how you can get distracted from problems in bed.
We want to start with the fact that we agree that we do not see any problems either in the partner and in the circumstances of intimate intimacy (that is, we like where, with whom). And the problems that prevent us from enjoying are abstract problems (work, life, family). Below we will look at some practical tips and recommendations how to distract yourself from problems, adjust yourself to excellent sex and get maximum enjoyment.
Recommendation 1. More romance.
In our crazy, crazy age, when you have to do a lot of things, everything does not have enough time and everything happens on the run, romance certainly disappears from the relationship. And without romance, even the most violent sex is nothing more than an entertaining gymnastics for two. Therefore, try at least once every two weeks to find time to surprise and pamper each other. Candles, playful erotic lingerie, pleasant relaxing music, all this perfectly tunes for sex. And I convince you, you will not think about any problems, but will just have fun.
Recommendation 2. Do not be afraid of experiments.
Romance is fine, but sometimes it's all right, and it's impossible to get the full return from making love. In this case, you can advise you to try to diversify your sex life. Erotic costumes, sex toys, erotic games all this can incredibly kindle the blood and inflame desire in both of you. Outwardly this advice is similar to the previous one, but its essence is more passion and expression. Do not be afraid to use new poses, do not hesitate to express your emotions, maybe it will not be very romantic, but it's like men and generally very exciting.
Recommendation 3. "curative starvation"
What allows us to get the most pleasure from food, this is not an exquisite cuisine and exotic spices, it's a banal famine. Try not to have sex for several days, provided that you have the physical ability to do so. And you yourself will see how you will be drawn to a partner with more passion than usual, and no problems in your head just can not resist, so to say nature will take its own! In this case, the main thing is not to overdo it with expectation and take into account the feelings and desires of men, but I think that it is sometimes useful for men to give a respite.
Recommendation 4. Eliminate the problems.
There is no man, no problem, we can rephrase this expression, there are no problems, there is nothing to distract! This output suggests itself, if something disturbs you, and you can not get distracted from it in bed, then maybe you should not change anything in bed, but you should solve the problem. Think about this, if something that distracts you has a feasible solution, it is easier to solve, once and for all, and not to fence the garden. And experiments and romance can be done and just for fun
All these tips and recommendations, as I have already specified, work only if everything suits you in the partner. After all, perhaps you can not get distracted from the problems, because your man does not suit you like a lover. In this case, all these recommendations may not help, and in this case it is necessary to solve other problems.