How to love again my husband

Marriage is a union of a man and a woman, based on mutual love and respect. And you were happy and sincerely loved when you married your husband, but after a lapse of years, the feeling, why something was dimmed and the former passion was extinguished. But you want to dissolve this flame again, and ask yourself how to love your husband again? Let's try to find the answer to this question together.

First of all, you want to start with a specific advice, think carefully, do you want to love your husband again? After all, if the feelings are gone forever, then this flame will not flare up. You can not really fall in love again, but if you feel that everything has not cooled to the end, and do not want to lose those feelings forever, then it seems to me that it's worth trying. So, let's look at what we can do to love our husband again.

Return to the origins of your relationship.
Everything in the world has a beginning, every river has any road, so does your love. Perhaps, that again to fall in love with your husband, you just need to go back to the places where you were at the very beginning of your relationship. Take a walk in the park where you first kissed, go to the cafe where he drove you. Again, arrange a small trip to the places where you were on a honeymoon. Perhaps the places where everything started, will again awaken your feelings for your husband!

Find the new person in the husband.
Over the years, you can get used to and be fed up with everything, even your beloved. But this does not mean that there is nothing new in this person, try to look at her husband in another way! Find those features that you did not notice and did not attach importance. After all, if you managed to stop loving your old husband, maybe you can love a new one! Perhaps novelty, this is exactly what you need, that would love again. After all, sometimes we live side by side, but at the same time we do not see anything important about a person. Try to find in the husband new sides and facets.

Correct what is annoying in her husband.
It happens that those shortcomings, which did not pay attention at the beginning of the relationship, after years start to irritate badly and directly kill feelings. Those things that at first seemed nice and did not cause antipathy after years can enrage. It's sad, but it's true. To remove this negative from the relationship, talk with your husband, explain to him how important it is for you to get rid of your shortcomings, that this affects bad feelings. Not the fact that the husband immediately understands you and agrees, but in the end, it seems to me that he can make such sacrifices for the sake of your love.

A little parting for a bit.
Distance and time is an interesting thing, sometimes they create miracles with people and feelings. And what seemed to you a cooled bonfire of feelings, where one ash, after a four-week stay alone in a sanatorium alone with nature (or a small trip with a girlfriend, or something else) without contact with her husband, after the return it is flaming again with a bright and hot flame love. Unlike the first board, where you were invited to visit together, here it is better to do it differently. My husband also can be advised to go to a statute to go. After all, there is nothing better for refreshing feelings than a small rest from each other.

As you can see, there are quite a few ways and tips to fall in love with your husband again or give a new impetus to a fading relationship. But I want to repeat myself and focus on the fact that it all makes sense only in a situation where both in you and in it there are still sparks of flame of the old feeling. Otherwise, you just try to blow on cooled and gray coals and you will not get anything out of it. It is for this reason that any action in this situation should begin, first of all, with a clear understanding, whether all this makes sense.