Removing contacts, throwing away donated things, this is common for people who are separated. Boys, most often, fewer girls worry about the gap, and if they do, they try to hide it from others, and from themselves. They do so because sentimental feelings, in their opinion, are contrary to the very nature of men - it must be strong, persistent and calm. Girls, on the contrary, usually experience a very strong separation from their beloved, especially if the feelings were real. They can go into a stupor, adore small trinkets given to the former, or they can start a new, full life on the contrary.
So why do girls want to return to the former?
The reasons why girls can abandon their men are sometimes strange, sometimes justified, but they can not always forgive men for their actions, at least for such forgiveness there must be a very good reason. For example, it is very difficult to forgive a man for treason, however, just like a woman. Saves such cases, either love or money, and it's hard to say which is more effective. A girl, if she greatly loves her man, can forgive his betrayal and return to him after the quarrel, but this will leave a serious imprint on their relationship. The young lady, who chases money, will most likely swallow her pride and also, as it were, forgive a man, but such forgiveness will not be sincere, which in future will exclude any possibility of a peaceful parting.
It happens that the girls throw their guys because of the condition of their wallet. Few girl can walk for several years with one wardrobe and be content with a small rented apartment on the outskirts of the city. Such a situation can not be saved even by the strongest love, because a man in the eyes of a woman should look like a support, a getter, a person who will keep not only her own, but also their children. As a result, constant scandals, each member of the family feels humiliated and offended. A man closes in himself, and as a consequence of this he loses his ability to improve himself in a professional way. A woman constantly attacks a man with all kinds of pretensions, although he also experiences his misfortune, but believes attacks are the only way to stir his beloved. It turns out a vicious circle, which can not overcome each pair, much less reunite after the break. There is a fear of returning to constant stress, poverty and only very strong love can overcome it.
There are just windy girls who meet with one or the other. Perhaps they simply can not find the one they want to spend the rest of their days with, or, on the contrary, do not want to be bound by permanent relationships. In this case, the reason for parting can serve any trifle, even such a ridiculous as buying a chocolate unloved brand. However, the return in this case can happen no less unexpectedly: a girl may get bored by a new partner or she may seem that this is he, the only one and only with him it is good, but in such cases it is most likely self-suggestion and does not soon pass. And then the girl again returns to the search. Maybe she will find her narrowed.
Sometimes, people are separated by vital circumstances: family moving, new interesting work, a catastrophe. How people would not like each other, they can not change circumstances. However, if a spark of mutual feelings has arisen in their hearts, they will most likely try to find each other. Especially it is possible to tell about the enamored people. Even if many years have passed, the girl has another man, maybe they even managed to get married, she will remember her true love and, at their meeting, will try to return it to herself. The truth is that it does not always happen. A man can stop feeling. Perhaps he is so keen on his work that he can not love anyone. Or he puts on the first place his new family, where, perhaps, children have appeared. In this case, though without regrets, the man will try to lock up the past love deeply in his soul and devote himself to his children, his new family.
Happens and so - there is a girl walking down the street and sees her ex on the other. But she once loved him. He gave her beautiful gifts, made a smiling scrambled eggs in the morning, took her to the movies, and in general they had such fun together. Because of what did they quarrel and parted? It seems the cause is constantly scattered throughout the apartment things. So stupid. And now she walks alone, the other guys undoubtedly compare with him. Everything is worse. These are only nasty, smelly socks. And he goes with another. Does he suffer? Probably, yes, because she knows that he loved her. And she suffers. Is it worth it? Probably not. Can socks and T-shirts put human happiness? - It's funny. And this jealousy, because in place of the girl should be it. Therefore, in the future, she is trying hard to get her ex-boyfriend back. Just so that he does not get to others, simply because she has more than others will not.
As a result, we can say that more often women return to their former lover or husbands, following their feelings, the dictates of their hearts. They rethink their past lives, remember their mistakes, partner mistakes, assess whether these mistakes are their happiness? Most often the answer is no. There are women mercenary. They return to the former, only because of fear of losing their lifestyle, their wealth, the opportunity to meet their ideals. It is also possible to return because of jealousy to other girls. After all, how can you let others have happiness when you do not have it, but it was when you were with him. Some simply can not find their mate. They rush back and forth in search, but rarely come to success.
Is it possible to give the most likely answer to the question: why do girls want to return to the former? Undoubtedly. The most common reason is love, which, despite all the obstacles, connects people.