So, how to understand, 💍 love 💍 or sympathy? In fact, this question is really complicated. It is not easy to understand and make the right decision. Love sometimes does strange things with us. But, sometimes, sympathy can be too strong. How to determine whether love is or not. And if it's sympathy, is it worth letting it grow into something more. How to understand what kind of feelings have arisen and what will they lead to?
In fact, everything is not so difficult, as it might seem at first glance. Love sometimes arises from sympathy, and we do not even understand when exactly it happened. It happens that a person seems to be just a friend. He is pleasant, nice, reliable. With this person you want to be close, but to him there is no sexual attraction. For the time being, until the time. And then everything suddenly changes. Man suddenly ceases to be for the girl just a pleasant friend. He is handsome, interesting, he can help and protect. It feels like a man's beginning. But, if a woman sees all this, can her feelings already be called love?
Of course not. In fact, between our feelings is a very fine line. Sometimes, we do not realize when we cross it. Perhaps you can understand what we are experiencing, if we ask such a serious question: can I live without it? And you do not need to allow yourself to answer: it is possible. If a woman realizes that she can let go of a man, then he is for her a friend, a brother, a pretty person to her. Love, this is when there is a feeling that it is really impossible to live without a person. As though it would not be desirable. Even if you release such a person, it's all the same, sooner or later, you start thinking about him, dreaming and wanting to meet. And these desires are not only platonic. And do not be afraid of such a reaction to your object of love. This is absolutely normal, because, experiencing strong emotional feelings of love for a person, we begin to desire it and with this nothing can be done.
Probably, liking can also be accompanied by similar feelings. But the difference is that with sympathy these feelings are easily suppressed and forgotten. When love comes to a man, however much he wants to, he too long simply can not forget about someone and wants this person, no matter how he wants to stop.
What else can you say about sympathy? Sympathy is, most likely, a more friendly feeling. Testing him to a man, we begin to look for him as a friend, companion, brother. If we see that he does not feel love for us, then we take it quite calmly. Of course, it is a little unpleasant, but, in any case, this feeling quickly passes. But when it comes to love, then rejection and rejection of feelings irritates, angers and offends. Man wants his feelings not only understood, but also accepted. When this does not happen, he begins to experience, fall into depression and for a long time to become isolated in himself. There are times when people, on the contrary, start to throw emotions on everyone around. But, anyway, it is worth noting that a person who experiences love will be very worried and nervous if his love is not accepted.
Loving people are different from simply sympathetic to the fact that they are really ready for much for the object of their love. This applies to his personal qualities and character, as well as appearance. If a loving person sees that a loved one does not like something, he will try to change himself, so that he is appreciated and understood.
Well, when these changes lead to the fact that a person becomes really better, more beautiful and smarter. But often there are those cases when for the sake of love people go to absolutely meaningless deeds. They change themselves and do not understand that these changes only lead to destruction. Yes, love does not always create. Sometimes it can destroy, and so much that it is then too difficult to return everything back and remind the person of who he was originally and what he lived.
But, nevertheless, it is this feeling that is called the present. For the one we sympathize with, a person will never try to change himself radically, to become more mature, smarter and braver. You can simulate this situation in different ways. But the essence will always remain alone. Love from sympathy differs in that for the sake of love we are ready to go to the end. But with sympathy, everything is a little different. Yes, for a nice person, we can try to do a lot. But, nevertheless, when we understand that we are doing something wrong or simply do not cope, then, we simply simply abandon our venture and start living the way we lived on. But a loving person can not stop even when everyone says that his behavior is practically inadequate.
Love and sympathy are those feelings that have one root. But they are developing in different ways. Of course, not all people can quickly and adequately determine what it feels. But, often, many need to understand what he feels and how to live with it. In fact, no matter how much we talk about theory and talk about logic, everything can be understood only if we dare to listen to our heart and intuition. If you do not forbid yourself to feel or, conversely, do not make you feel more than there is in our heart, it's easy to determine which emotions we are experiencing. When there is only sympathy, a person will never fall asleep and wake up with the thought of this person. He will never cry only on the thought that he has hurt a person and does not know how to fix this situation. In fact, love has so many different manifestations. But, nevertheless, it is real. We just all love differently. And if, looking at someone, we understand that we simply can not without this person, so that there will not be, even the end of the world, which means that this is exactly love.