A fairly large number of people argue that the relationship must begin on the basis of love and trust, but love is another trait to reach. It turns out that sex, love - this is the second step to which you need to get. So, the foothold of all kinds of relations is only communication. Even in the zoo - communication is the only guarantor that you will not be eaten. And what, in that case, is there to talk about our modern world.
Communication is a mechanism of mutual understanding and interaction of two worlds, two opposites: men and women. Communicating, we learn more about each other, the attitude towards understanding the inner world of our companion increases. Today, many perceive communication as a game of roulette, - put in case, and if lucky, then the right choice of partner. No luck for the first time, put on the second or third. Some people let things go on their own - let the relations develop on their own, without additional efforts.
It should be emphasized that there is a female and a male perspective on the subtlety of the relationship. The male point of view on the relationship will always be based on his first experience of communication - on the relationship with the mother. The quality that a man seeks in his women is a subconscious resemblance to the mother, then the ability to create a sense of security while being under the care of the mother. They are looking for only an improved version of the mother, who will protect his entire subsequent life. Often such a relationship develops according to a long-known scenario - at the initial stage the man obeys, later the loss of sexual interest occurs. As a result, the woman assumes the role of the main in the family, which gives her the right to make decisions and assess the situation. Later, a woman realizes that she is losing the opportunity to be a real woman, but she needs a big responsibility. A man comes to the conclusion that he has lost his freedom, and his love for the companion has been transformed into fear and discontent. And the result of wrongly started relationships is collapse, and both can not understand why this happened.
The woman's view - on the relationship with the opposite sex is different than for men. Women are less likely to adopt the pattern of their relationship with their father. Much more important for them is the approval of the surrounding women. Women, undoubtedly, educate their husbands and constantly share each other with the tricks of manipulating the opposite sex. A woman wants to fully own a man, both his inner state and external. They are trying to remake a man for themselves, so that a man in the future does not just do what the woman wants, but also felt these desires. And all this upbringing takes place on the plane of love. And if they do not give in to training, then scandals are in play. So - no obedient husband - this is a negative, which requires adjustment.
So it turns out that most young women, in pairs, begin to rule and take care of the education of a man, and a man looks for his mother in a companion and gives power to her hands. And they both dream of a happy family life. This is one of the options how to start a relationship correctly.
Communication is one of the important moments of our life. It is with communication that relationships begin. And communication, as well as any relationship, it is necessary to learn and preferably for life.