To begin with it is necessary to learn to undress
First and foremost, children, as a rule, learn not to wear clothes from themselves. Already in a year and a half they can remove their socks and hat without help, and in no time they remove the sweater and panties without problems. However, the process of dressing and dressing is connected with one whole, so it is not necessary to limit the baby. It will be better if he gets used to doing everything himself. Do not forget to praise the child if he successfully took off his clothes. This will give him an incentive to put it on again.
However, adults will have to gain strength and patience in this period, because the child will be very slow to tinker with clothes. There will be a wish, and it is possible to put a jacket and shoes on it, than to watch him suffer for several minutes. Do not do this. The child should learn independence and in difficult moments rely only on himself. Parental help is needed at the very beginning, for example, to turn the socks on the front face or to unknot the tangled laces.
Teaching a child to take care of
Do not suppress the child's desire for initiative. If he is trying hard to put on clothes, do not bother him. However, to demand that he always dressed himself, also not worth it. The task that parents must perform is to encourage the baby's intentions and guide his or her activities in the right direction. Therefore, be patient and be calm.
Do not try to criticize the baby, let alone laugh with the actions if he can not cope with the clothes. If he has unskilled socks made of shoes, and the hat is not worn hip, do not bother him. The witch himself tried, and this is very important. Constantly praise his actions.
Often, parents can not tolerate a long time, especially when they feel they are late. They begin in a hurry to dress the child, not allowing him the opportunity to lead the process. To avoid such situations, you need to meet in advance. Distribute your time in such a way that you can safely continue training the baby properly dressing. Try to get up half an hour earlier in the morning, so as not to rush the child.
If the child refuses to dress independently, help him. You can half-put his socks on and ask him to put them on until the end.
Let your child wear only those clothes that are easy to take. After a while, even winter clothes will be on his shoulder.
Any skill, like the ability to dress and undress, does not form immediately. And you will do a wonderful job for the baby, if unobtrusively every day you will offer him little "lessons": for example, ask the girl to put his hands on the sleeves of his clothes, fix the dress, put on all the way. You can arrange a kind of competition, naprmimer, dress up for speed, thereby forcing the child to do it again and again.
Take care of having to buy a child appropriate toys that will help him master the art of quick dressing. To the dolls, which you can put on and undress. In addition, you can buy development tools, such as lacing games and everything that can be unfastened and buttoned. Plus, it can be soft toys with buttons or velcro. Such games will help develop the motor skills of the hands, after which the child will be able to cope with the task positively.
Do not forget to play with the child in games that will accelerate his abilities. Suggest him this option: let his legs become a locomotive, the Ashtanins a tunnel, in which he must call. He will gladly do it. For girls there is an alternative option - to arrange a fashion show.
Most importantly - you need to interest the child, so that the process is interesting to him. Otherwise, you will not achieve anything. Say that you want the child to ride a bicycle if he does everything by himself. Express confidence in what the child is doing. Praise and sometimes help him. The main thing - be persistent, but do not be too serious. It is very important that the child feels love towards himself.
Children like to imitate adults. Lay out your things and the baby's things in one row and start dressing at the same time. Offer to compete - who will be the first to dress. At first the child will need your help, because he will not be able to keep up with you. Try not to offend the child and do not let his tears. Return it to the game will be problematic. As soon as you see that the child has done an offended look - change the strategy.
If the kid stubborn and screams, go for a compromise. Let the child himself choose clothes that he wants to wear. In advance, offer a few options for clothing.
Tell your child in which order he should wear clothes. It is important to teach this from childhood so that he does not have problems in the future. Many children find it very difficult to remember the order of dressing. You can help-buy a poster where each stage of dressing clothes will be indicated and hang in his children's room or in the hallway. There is another more correct and accessible option - to draw a poster with the child. Find the magazines and cut out the suitable pictures that symbolize the correct dressing. Put them on the Whatman in the right order. So the child will be easier to remember the process. That the child does not confuse where before, and where back, designate pockets on clothes, which they can correctly orient themselves. If you did everything correctly, be sure your child will quickly become an independent, adult person.