Everything happens overnight, you hear the usual "for now", which this time means "not goodbye", but "farewell", and then emptiness, there are no more walks in the evenings, there is no morning kiss before leaving for work, there is only silence and barely perceptible its smell, which has not yet disappeared from your apartment.
And you do not know where to put yourself, walk around the room, look at photos and roar, buried in a pillow or looking out the window, whoever you like. You broke up friends. Of course. But neither he, nor you more, most likely, do not call each other just to ask how things are. And no one is to blame, it just happens, passes love, and you realize that it could not continue like this, and it hurts because you are in an unusual state for yourself.
When the relationship ends, it's always sad and offensive, dreams and hopes that you cherished for a long time are falling. But life does not end there. In the end, after a while the new prince will come again, and you will not have time for yourself. Therefore, take advantage of the moment, do not waste time on useless "self-regret."
Next you need to answer the question "What should I do?" The answer is just to live. The emptiness that has formed must be filled in, and it is up to you to decide how you will do it, that there will be tears, cynicism, hatred, feelings of inferiority or joy, surprise, unexpectedly discovered new interests in life, the possibility of maximum It is useful to use suddenly appeared free time.
Usually, after a rather short time after parting on the horizon, a new person appears. As a rule, the new relationships that have developed after the break are short-lived and mild, but this is not a reason to keep unnecessary loyalty to someone who is no longer in your life.
You will constantly compare the "newcomer" with the former, and the comparison will almost always be in favor of such a native and familiar, but already a former friend. Still, you should not put a wall between yourself and other people, although this behavior is justified, because you do not want to feel pain and disappointment again. But after all, there is still a chance that the new acquaintance will be, perhaps, your destiny.
You can plunge into the work. Sometimes suffering is beneficial and if you are a creative person, then after some recession you will find a fountain of new ideas that will help you in your career. And sometimes someone even chooses to change his life in all directions. No bored relationships, no bored uninteresting work is also an option, at least in the search for a new job and getting used to it will make you forget about the unsuccessful experience on the love front.
In the end, you can enjoy the pause formed to the fullest : to visit girlfriends, who completely abandoned, to make various experiments on their appearance, without thinking how it will react to it, as in childhood go to bed in embrace with a plush hare (or bear, who, what to eat), flirt, without looking back at his "half."
Being alone does not mean that you are sitting and shedding tears all night long , that you look with greedy eyes at the next man in the hope that you will be noticed. To be alone means to walk proudly along the street and enjoy the bright sun; do not what someone likes, but what you want; think not about the perfection of make-up, but about the fact that at home you are waiting for brushes and paints, and you finally can, without being embarrassed by anyone, to draw the whole evening without fear of appearing strange.
After all, right now you can do what you have always lacked the time to live in anticipation of the new that awaits you ahead. Remember that someday one thing ends, another begins and it does not take long to wait.