How to teach a child to kindergarten?

From the moment of adding to the family, the woman dissolves in her long-awaited baby - "breathes" to them, lives by his desires and interests. But the baby quickly grows up, and he needs less attention from his parents and more space for development. This is the ideal time to start attending kindergarten.

It would seem that new toys, friends, various games and activities - all this should become a real magnet for an inquisitive little girl, and going to a kindergarten is associated with a pleasant and interesting pastime. In fact, for many it turns out to be a real tragedy. What is the reason for the complex adaptation of the baby and how to teach him to the garden? Parents who plan to visit the garden in the future should know that adaptation is a natural and natural process. The kid needs to get used to the new regime, people, demands.

Another thing is that this adaptation for some is too painful: the kid, not wanting to part with his mother and father, rolls the tantrum already at home, and it can continue all day. Taking the same child from the garden, instead of his smiling and obedient crumbs, parents observe a hysterical, stubborn and depressed kid. Against the background of constant stress, immunity may even decrease, and the baby will begin to get sick all the time.

In addition, parents, bringing crumbs to the garden, see that other children can safely go to the group, actively and cognitively spend the whole day in the garden and evening with their parents. And they naturally ask themselves: what is the secret?

First of all, parents should know that if the child is the only one in the family, too much care at home, depends on the mother and is unsure of himself, then, most likely, his adaptation to the garden will be difficult. Therefore, for such kids it is better to start preparing for the kindergarten six months before the moment when he crosses his threshold. What is she like?

To begin with, maximally expand the circle of communication of your child. More often visit children's parks, developing classes, swimming pool. Take the kid with him during raids on nature, going to the store or visiting and gradually accustom him to interact with people of different sexes, ages and positions. Try to leave the crumbs more often yourself. Tell a fairy tale, watch a movie or a cartoon with a baby about a kindergarten. Play in it, explain the purpose of the garden. Without further details, say that this is the place where children play while their parents are working. In any case, do not discuss the garden in a negative way, do not abuse the caregivers in the child, but too it is not worth praising too much.

Before the first visit, it is necessary to correct the regime of your child for the one that is accepted in the garden, teach him to eat, dress, go to the toilet. A good idea can be to attract a baby to choose a new wardrobe for the garden.

At the initial stages of adaptation, it is better to give preference to gradual training, when the baby is left in the garden for only a few hours a day, adding a couple of hours to the time each week. At every opportunity, praise the baby, saying what he is already an adult and how he likes to go to the garden - the children are easily suggestible.

When the baby starts to fully attend the garden, try to always be in a good mood in the morning. Do not give out your experiences and fears to the child. Come always on time and try to establish a trusting relationship with the garden staff. Say goodbye, smile and talk about when exactly you will return for the baby: after a dream, after a meal, after a walk, etc. With him, he can give a favorite toy or sweetness.

But even for the most prepared and obedient kid the adaptation can take some time. You need to be ready for this and take it calmly and patiently. The crumb takes time to get used to. Support it, and after a couple of months you will not notice how your baby will be happy to run into the garden, make new friends and proudly wear the first crafts.