How to tell a man that the relationship is over?

We are very easy to start a relationship with a man, but to complete an existing one is very difficult and difficult. And what to do if the feelings are cold, and your partner still does not even suspect anything?

You already decided for yourself that it's pointless and dishonest to continue your relationship, but you realize that by telling him that all your relationships are over, you will bring him severe heartache. How to act in this case? Let's look into this difficult situation.

To begin with, you need to think about everything well. Put on the scales all the pros and cons. Think about what influenced the adoption of such a decision. If you are all well thought out, everything is weighed and confident that you should not continue to continue the relationship, be firm in your decision. But how to tell a man that the relationship is over? You have to be prepared for the fact that this process will be painful for both, but you need to find the courage and strength to live it all.

Tell the man that the relationship is over need to personally. Do not call him and send sms. This option does not work in this case. Do not use offensive and offensive words. It is necessary to explain tactfully and correctly the reason for the severance of relations. We must try, although this can not be avoided, so that the unpleasant draft would be as little as possible. Do not try to just take and disappear from his life without explanation by turning off the phone. On your part it will look ugly, cruel and, very painful for him. This behavior will be a burden and your conscience.

Try to leave peacefully, without tears and reproaches. Even if there are reasons for this, the time of the accusations has passed and there is no need to overshadow the parting by clarifying the relationship and scandal. Bitterness and resentment always have a negative effect on your mental balance.

Parting is always a very difficult step.

If the relationship is over, it means that the key moment has already come. Act on the principle "better sooner than later".

It is necessary to tell the man honestly what influenced you about making a decision about parting. Do not be silent, do not try to bypass the "sharp corners" - better tell everything straight, but trying to offend a man as little as possible.

The easiest way is to collect your things and leave, but you need to express your point of view and be sure to listen to the other side. A man also has something to say to you, and he will necessarily want to hear all the answers to all his questions.

Do not break the relationship with a man in public.

Even if he's a scoundrel and a bastard, behave yourself worthy. Others will not understand you.

Write him. This is advice to those who can not express their feelings with words, who do not have the spirit, say that all relationships are over, then write to him about everything, tell me why you decided to end the relationship with him.

It will be honest and beautiful, if you give this letter personally to the hands, where everyone write about their feelings.

In order not to feel guilty, especially if we are the initiator, we often roll up tantrums and scandals. But we will not help the scandal, but we'll spoil our nerves. Parting is always hard. Do not make scandals and spoil your health.

If you do not know how it's better to say that the relationship is over, then you need to turn the situation the other way and imagine what you would like to hear when leaving you. Presented? Then it will be easier for you to conduct a conversation and your actions. If a man does not want to understand you, and you can not manage everything with the world, then you are sure that you have done everything that was in your abilities and strength.

Stopping all relationships, we are afraid that we will remain alone. But life is beautiful and she always gives a chance to meet her half and become happy. be happy