After conducting interviews, it became known that most people turn on the TV in order to be able to get relaxation or time to distract themselves from anything. Psychophysiologists confirm the fact that during the direct viewing of the TV, the tension really subsides, but as soon as we turn it off, everything returns to normal, or even exceeds the original level, to some extent.
And it is not surprising, unfortunately, that in the family relations degradation takes place over time, the husband and wife move away from each other, because they lose emotional connection. For once in my life we have heard or seen that the couple are watching TV in different rooms or alternately. They do not even have a common favorite show or film, not to mention other common hobbies. It is very rare for families to meet when two loving people watch the programs together, discussing them later. And this is one of the connecting factors in family relations. After all, the husband and wife should have common hobbies.
But this fact can not help in solving another very important problem related to how to use free time in the family. After all, according to the testimony of studies, it became known that the occupation not only of moral, but also physical activity is inherent only to three respondents out of ten, and to four respondents this is not peculiar even from time to time.
Reduction of motor activity carries a threat to both physical health of a person and psychological one. This fact so troubled the minds of the world that, thanks to the World Health Organization, a campaign was launched that promotes the idea of a movement for health. After all, many doctors of different directions believe that just the most common physical activity and the opportunity to communicate with nature are the most powerful antidepressants, both in marriage and in life in general. And those spouses who together make such walks, about family quarrels and scandals often only hear from other people.
On such types of recreation as joint riding on roller skates, horses, skiing, water, mountain and hiking tourism, it is natural to allocate much more financial resources than simple walks in the park or fishing. But their value for the family relations themselves is simply indescribable. And if the family has a teenager, then such family hobbies help to cope with teenage problems more quickly and efficiently.
Paired dances in the West are the most popular family hobby. A young married couple will more easily transfer the so-called "grinding" in the relationship, and couples who have lived together for decades together, in this environment, are experiencing the very first feelings of the honeymoon.
Communicating with pets is the most powerful antidepressant, after the above activities associated with physical activity. Numerous studies show that it is the ability to exercise care for anyone, including domestic animals, among the main reasons for living.
Considering the topic "Husband and wife: common interests", we can emphasize one more very favorable circumstance, positively influencing the family atmosphere. Such a factor is played by family games, which include not only sports.
For example, American families attend special trainings on which they can correctly choose the game that suits their family more than others. Psychologists have identified such an interesting moment that all people need to be taught to play. This applies to children and adults, because children do not know how, and adults do not know how to do it. After all, any hobby and hobby should have some impact. Here on such trainings couples get them.
Another option for family leisure is to visit museums. But, unfortunately, every year the statistics of married couples who make family trips to museums of any type, more and more decreases. Respondents who participated in one of the studies admitted that only ten percent of them had visited museums in the last five years. And seventy percent of respondents said they would like to instill in their children a love of art, but everything is not enough for this time.
All the same, married couples do not need to get hung up on this problem, the problem of common hobbies. Of course, you do not need to forget about it. Every member of the family, apart from the general, should have his own individual, personal hobby. After all, for example, boxing for a woman is not exactly what she dreamed about, or doing oriental dances for a man - to say softly not what the doctor prescribed.
Of course, if the husband went fishing or hunting, and the wife sits at home and is cleaning, this will not have a particularly beneficial effect on family relations. Husband and wife should have common interests, otherwise they will soon be bored with this difference. But, if she at this time will go to fitness classes or drawing, then the level of harmony and peace of mind in the family is guaranteed to increase.