Stage number 1. Passionate love.
With the image of your beloved or your beloved are exclusively positive emotions. The second half spiritualizes all actions and actions. If there are any unpleasant situations, then you do not take offense at a loved one.
Stage 2. Some cooling.
If a loved one is not around, then he may not be remembered, but if he appears, then immediately there is an emotional rise.
Stage No. 3. Subsequent cooling of feelings.
One appearance of a loved one is not enough to cause positive emotions. Now we need affectionate words, gifts, attention, apologies, etc. At this stage it is recommended that one of the spouses go on a business trip or take a short vacation in order for the relationship to return to the first stage.
Stage No. 4. Further cooling of the relationship.
The presence of the spouse causes irritation, often unconscious. Personality characteristics and habits of the partner are perceived as weighty shortcomings, and, therefore, quarrels over trifles quite often arise.
Stage number 5. Negative relations.
The presence of a spouse increases the nature of this kind of relationship. Partner ceases to be dear, beloved, an angel and becomes an infamous, calculating villain, scoundrel, etc. Joint life with a spouse ceases to have any meaning. Usually at this stage, a large number of applications for divorce are submitted. The lawyer is considering the situation. Usually the relations at the fifth stage are completed.
However, if there are obstacles, stabilizing factors, and before the divorce the relationship does not reach, then after a while, as it is not strange, the stages of the relationship are repeated, but, of course, in a new quality.
If these individual cycles of the spouses coincide, then this is bad and most likely the relationship will end in divorce. It is better when the stages are combined in opposite phases. Such a family has more chances to survive.
Is it possible to slow down the development of the relationship between the spouses so that the fourth and fifth stages do not come? Psychologists conducted a study, which consisted in creating favorable conditions. The following results were obtained: the respondents noted in the relationship with the spouse some strange fits of love, heavy and painful for both.
The period of recession of emotional experiences is characteristic even for the first year of a joint life. Such results were obtained after plotting the graph. However, the "failures" in love are still not deep and not lasting. After this short period, short bursts of relations begin.
In the first year of family life in the period of "failure" in love quarrels may not yet arise. Confusion can be limited only to quiet tears and deep sighs.
The most favorable combination of changes in the emotional state of spouses, when the difference between frequencies is doubled. Only then "failures" in the love of one partner will be blocked by the maximum love of the other. With this combination, one partner will be influenced by a negative attitude when he considers his wife from an unfriendly position, the other is in parallel in a positive attitude, and therefore intends to forgive everything, and also strives to justify the husband's bad attitude to himself.