Having conducted numerous studies and observations, the scientists found out that after experiencing divorce, a large number of men experience stress and depression, believing that divorce is a betrayal on the part of the second half. Some of the men even think about suicide, another part firmly intend to take revenge on the ex-wife for ending the relationship. Statistics show that thirty-seven percent of men after two years from the date of divorce began to feel free, and only twenty-two percent of those surveyed were glad that they began to lead a bachelor life.
In addition, divorced men in most cases are not in a hurry to establish relationships with old comrades, those who restore old relationships only thirty-eight percent. Here are the facts that directly indicate that men are seriously going through a divorce: one-third, that is thirty-three percent of former husbands, after they are alone, begin to flood their grief with alcohol and very quickly get drunk; twenty-three percent are interrupted by accidental connections; thirteen percent try to return to premarital time and meet with women who were known before marriage.
And is there life after the divorce in women? Having conducted observations and relevant surveys, psychologists found that divorced women do not particularly worry about losing a relationship with a former lover. In most cases, divorced women not only improve their health, but the state of the soul comes to normal. It should be said that some representatives of the weaker sex are in a state of euphoria for a year, or even more, since the divorce.
If about a third of divorced men try to marry as soon as possible, even resorting to services provided by marriage agencies, then women, in the vast majority of cases, are not in a hurry to get married, starting to think about this possibility at times several years after the divorce.
This behavior of men and women after the divorce, family relations specialists give a fairly simple explanation. Having been free from bored domestic responsibilities, a tyrant husband or a bad husband, a woman can live as she likes, enjoy freedom and pay more attention to herself. A large number of representatives of the beautiful half of humanity renew old ties, communicate with friends, take a closer look at their appearance and health, go on a journey.
The male part, after separation from the familiar family life, feels a sense of confusion from the problems and worries that have appeared. In general, men are not inclined to special life changes, these are the features of the psychology of men. That's why, as a rule, life after a divorce for men turns into a deep stress, which will be even stronger if the initiative of the divorce was put forward by the spouse.
Obviously, each divorce is caused by certain reasons, different for each pair. Judging by the stress scale, divorce takes the first place in terms of the impact on the human psyche. A person must decide for himself whether there is life after the divorce, or not.
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site