People who are going to live together, to some extent, experience stress, because they must not only change their way of life, but also learn to understand, respect and adapt to each other. In fact, if a man and a woman really love each other, it's not so difficult.
To live together was happy and conflict-free, full of pleasant moments, you must follow a few simple rules.
Start from scratch
If people decide to live together, they take a very serious step towards each other, so you need to forget all the old grievances and misunderstandings, and start all over again. If possible, it is desirable that the apartment was shared. Thus, each partner will be an equal in rights owner. Otherwise, there may be a situation where one partner will feel uncomfortable, being obliged to another for the "provided living space", which will lead to embarrassing situations, for example, if a person is too shy to express an opinion.
Do not be afraid to sacrifice something
Remember, if you decide to live together, you need to forget about the word "I". Now you have to use the notion of "we", and think like that. Those familiar things that you did before, may not like your loved one, so be sure to ask, please arrange it before you do something.
Equip accommodation together
We have already said that it is desirable that the housing was common, so that both partners feel themselves equally. General housing needs to be built only together, so that both are comfortable. Nothing is able to bring people closer than a joint business. Buy magazines on the interior, go shopping together, discuss the smallest details. Surely, you will love your new occupation, which will bring you more and even more.
The TV is no longer the center of the universe
Often the problem in the relationship is the TV, which now and then shows only soap operas or box or football. Learn to find common interests, see the programs that you both want.
And the best way is to forget the hotel. Walk a lot more, go to the cinema or the cafe. If you live your life, this does not mean that you need to sit in front of the TV or before computers completely forget about dating. Otherwise, you are threatened with "loneliness", when two people who seem to like each other, can not find a common language and joint activity.
Learn to respectfully articulate and find compromises
If you think that you do not need a new one yet, or can not afford it, or you just want to buy something else, then do not be afraid to say it. Remember, the relationship and especially the joint accommodation is first of all a compromise, so respectfully express your opinion, and your second half will certainly find with you a compromise, which will be convenient for both of you.
Do not be afraid of difficulties
Sometimes people who love each other tend to complete the relationship ahead of time when the first difficulties arise, in the hope that the new relationship will be more successful. Just understand that difficulties and problems are a natural component of any relationship. Carefully analyze your problems so as not to repeat the same mistakes in the future.
The main thing in a relationship is understanding. Even if you start living together, but you will only give each other a few hours on weekends, nothing good will come of such a relationship. The emotional connection between people eventually weakens if you do not work with solicitude, because love does not come once and for all. Take care of your feelings!