According to studies of psychologists, male sexual fears differ significantly from women's. And even surpass them by number. As much as men do not hawk, about 80% of them are afraid of something in sexual relations. No exception are written handsome, macho, Kazan and Lovelace.
The most terrible thing
A recent large-scale survey of men aged 18 to 50 years identified five major sexual fears. We quote them in descending order.
It turned out that most of all men are afraid of an unplanned pregnancy partner (84% of respondents). In fact, these data pleased doctors and women alike. This suggests that men no longer perceive the artificial termination of pregnancy as a matter of course. They realize that abortion is a big sin. But, unfortunately, they are not very ready to become fathers, once they feel fear about this. By the way, subconscious fear of pregnancy partner is one of the most common causes of impotence in men.
The second place on the sexual fears of men surprised many. 70% of the strong half of humanity are afraid of virgins! It turns out that the time has passed when the chastity of the wife was an indispensable condition for a proper marriage. And young virgins are no longer the limit of men's dreams. That to that fault (fear of blood, physiological or psychological reasons), is not informed. For comparison - only 38% of women do not want to be the first to have virgin boys.
68% of men are afraid of comparing themselves with other men in a sexual way. And it's not so much about the size of men's dignity. After all, not the size is important, but the ability to "use" it. More often, fears arise in sexual skills, vivid manifestations of feelings, sexual fantasy, the ability to experiment - that is, in the plane of psychological compatibility of partners. And the man jarred when the partner says that the previous lover was more romantic, affectionate, assertive, etc. Of course, a smart woman will never publicly compare the merits of her partners. But men are afraid not only what women will say, but what they think.
The fact that many men are a little selfish is also confirmed by statistics. Only 46% of men are afraid not to satisfy their partner. That is, more than half of men care about the satisfaction of their own sexual desires. It is not surprising that in this regard, many women do not always experience orgasm. Let's hope that your man belongs to the coveted 46%, and your sexual experiences are not indifferent to him.
Every third man has a fear of sexual experiments. Someone from the women will disappoint this message, but the majority will only be happy - it will be less to skirt behind skirts.
Other causes of men's fears
Among other male sexual fears, we note the fear for their freedom. A woman, having got a man, expects from him increased attention, care, caring. But men at the same time feel like someone's property. With friends, do not drink beer, do not stay long, talk to me, let's walk alone together. And when it comes to children, many men "evaporate." That is, not every man is willing to sacrifice his freedom for sex.
Also, men experience how attractive they are in the eyes of women. Moreover, handsome men sometimes complex in this regard more than balding low men with beer tummies. And the fear of not liking a woman is stronger, the more carefully the men are watching for themselves (unless, of course, it is not about narcissism).
Young guys tend to have fear of sex because of fear of showing their inexperience. But for many girls, this "flaw" on the contrary is a great advantage. The situation is much more difficult when fear is caused by fear of premature ejaculation. It is very important to understand and provide psychological assistance from the partner. Otherwise, fear will develop into serious sexual dysfunction.