Imagine it! Already in three weeks, the heart starts beating at the crumb, the senses are formed to the sixth. In a month the baby will learn to open the mouth, then - to squeeze and unclench the cams. And with the 13th week it will be with great pleasure to suck a finger. Of course, this is not all ... Putting his hand to his stomach, you can not only feel the stirring of a small, but also invite him to communicate.
Everything that happens in my mother's heart is felt by the baby. Every emotion experiences with you. Of course, the whole spectrum of human emotions is not yet available to him, but all your experiences are translated into a crumb in the language of hormones and excess or lack of oxygen in the blood. You have one blood system! And when you gasp from anger, he feels himself in danger because of the lowering of the oxygen level. And when you dissolve in bliss, the hormones of happiness endorphins are immersed in nirvana and small. Therefore, learn to listen to your feelings, understand the language of the child's movements. In gratitude, he will let you know what time of day he prefers, communicating with whom it gives him pleasure, what music he likes.
Without noise and screaming
Sharp, dissonant sounds do not like the baby. He becomes restless: he tumbles in your stomach, knocks on it with his heels. Protect the little one not so much from loud music as from cacophony, noise, screaming. Well, if you still get into the maelstrom of unpleasant sounds, then after all, talk to the crumb, calm down, explain what it was, with the help of positive images, mother's communication with a tiny baby is facilitated first of all by the excellent mood of the mother.
Put your hand on your tummy and quietly sing your favorite song, tell the counting-down, tapping lightly and stroking where you feel stirring. Believe me, the karapuz will learn: Mom is always with him, she understands everything, protects, calms. A little baby will certainly answer you. How? Who knows, and suddenly he at this moment will stroke your palm ...
Stories for the night
Often the child activates just when the mother goes to bed. Well, nightly conversations will only benefit you. Do not you know how to start a conversation with your sun? Try to introduce it. Tell the baby about your childhood, about your mother, what you loved to play and how. Too sentimental for you? Well, then at least read the book out loud. He really needs to hear your voice.
Life is Beautiful! Or not?
All that the baby will hear before meeting with the unknown world is its gold reserve. Like the first brush strokes on a clean canvas.
Even small quarrels between parents leave a trace in the child's psyche due to the communication of mom with a tiny baby. And suddenly after birth, he will remember how unpleasant your voices sounded then? .. It's possible. Therefore, less stress in the relationship and more affectionate words addressed to the baby! Do not forget: there lives a small child and he does not want to hear how you quarrel.
What are we listening to?
In the second trimester the baby begins to perceive music. Introduce it to the present! Give him pleasure!
Through the neuroendocrine system, music affects almost all the systems and organs of the baby: the frequency of breathing, the tone of the muscles, the motor skills of the stomach and the intestines change. In addition, under the influence of melody, the emotional sphere is formed, intellectual abilities are improved, the feeling of beauty is brought up. Real music is not necessarily classical, but certainly good. If the "Nutcracker" Tchaikovsky is no longer so fascinating as in his childhood, and under Vivaldi more and more want to cry, do not force yourself. The kid will like those works that are dear to you. Although there is one nuance: the little one in the tummy adores listening to children's voices and does not like low, bass sounds.
I give you happiness!
Negative emotions (fear, anger) worsen not only your state of health, but also the state of the child. Joy makes me sing!
Cultivate a sense of happiness and transfer it to your baby by communicating with a mother with a tiny baby. It will be fixed in the cells of the child's body. It's easy to say: "Be happy!" And if in the period of hormonal changes your psychological state is, to put it mildly, unstable and any small thing in your eyes is a disaster? The Chinese believe that in the body of a pregnant woman a channel of communication between her heart and the heart of a crumb is open. Therefore, all anxieties, worries, fears are transmitted to the baby. The power of the heart and spirit helps to develop attachment to the unborn child.
Doctors say that the flow of vital energy can be supported by concentration of thought, deep relaxation and positive thinking. Learn to get distracted, switch attention. Guard yourself because it's annoying. Protect the baby! His tiny heart should not be beat faster due to the fact that mum gnaw disturbing thoughts. We understand, it's hard to pull yourself together and calm down.
Try Yoga
Her special poses-asanas and breathing techniques improve physical health, affect the state of mind and strengthen the heart chakra. Just what you need right now! In addition, it relaxes well, relieves tension and allows you to mentally talk with the child creativity. It is not for nothing that it is believed that during pregnancy the woman re-finds herself. Talents are revealed. From somewhere poems are taken, pictures are written, recipes of delicious salads and pies are thought out. The inspirer is all he, your baby. Take advantage of these natural relaxants, create and work! Itself you will not notice, how under dimensional tapping of spokes or rustle of a brush in a shower peace and harmony will reign. And the causes of fear and anger seem small and not worth the attention.
Daddy at the phone
The future popes are strict and soft, bold and shy. But they all become terribly touching when they talk with the tummies of their pregnant wives.
This is so touching! Do not be afraid to show feelings. The baby will be happy to talk with you and listen to your voice. Mamina stroking and soft calm speech he already knew. You can diversify and slightly shake these "pink clouds". Do not be surprised, the child clearly distinguishes between father and mother. And will communicate with you in the style that is closer to you. And to become stronger friends with someone who so responsibly responds to your stroking, do not miss the opportunity to see it on the screen of the ultrasound machine. Sign up with your lover for courses for future parents. There you not only get a sea of necessary and interesting information (you must keep the situation under control!), But also communicate with the same lucky ones as yourself.