Naturally, in this situation, you pushed sex with your loved one into the background, because you have a lot of other important things to do. You have a lot of very urgent cases and almost all day is painted by the minute, and in the evening you hardly get to the pillow and immediately turn off. You communicate with your loved one only by SMS.
Distracting maneuver
Many of us, in order to be able to fully concentrate on the matter, are content with having sex with your loved one later on. For example, athletes in the preparation for the Olympics take a "vow of celibacy", scientists at the threshold of discovery forget about "calf tenderness", businessmen in the excitement of making money and concluding transactions postpone all other pleasures for later ... It turns out that the realized need for sex with your loved one seems to be interfering concentrate on something important, distracts, takes away energy. Is it so?
You, too, can boast of sex with your favorite postponed for later? I wonder what you're losing, if that happens? By the way, the losses are not so small and harmless as you might think.
Physiological needs of man (hunger, thirst, sexual attraction), psychologists refer to the basic. While they remain unsatisfied, all the other needs (for example, in safety, love, respect, cognitive and aesthetic) you still can not realize to the fullest. In a word, until you get pleasure from regular lovemaking with a loved one, you can hardly be content with your life as a whole. Often you have a vague feeling that something is wrong with you. And this despite impressive achievements in the professional field or a wonderful relationship with others. Agree, such prospects can not be called rosy.
Continuous trouble!
But in fact, if you postpone sex with your loved one for only a couple of months, nothing terrible will happen? Abstinence does not benefit either the body or the soul. During the cycle, the degree of the woman's desire changes. The body is specially prepared for intimacy. And if you ignore the "request" of your body and postpone sex with your loved one for later, it takes offense. Can "revenge" hormonal disorders, bad mood, deterioration of the skin and hair. Do not forget that unrealized desires return to us in a dream. Are you ready for a month of erotic movies?
In search of empathy
And, most importantly, your abstinence is dangerous because besides you your partner also suffers. And to him for what? He did not postpone sex with your loved one for later! On the contrary, he cherishes and cherishes you, but you can not love in every sense of the word! Of course, he understands that you are not doing this all out of harm, but because of a lack of time, but is it any easier? Take care of yourself, and immediately! Work and study are very important, but if you overwork, there will be simply no one to deal with them. Do not forget about preventive measures. To work was in joy, you really need a sound sleep, good food and, of course, love! Do not forget about sex with your loved one, because we are all human beings and we need a discharge. Therefore, take it as a rule to allocate three nights a week to yourself and your loved one and try, never to postpone sex with your loved one for later. "While the couple is joined by passion, they will always be in the world, despite serious quarrels." Emile Zola, the French writer.