Half of our lives we spend at work in the environment of the same people. Hence the notion of sexual relations and career, in general, are inseparable. Sociologists authoritatively declare - more than half of extramarital and family ties after 30 years are born at work.
Sexual Harassment at Work
Sometimes spouses and intimate partners become colleagues by profession, employees, performer, customer and there is nothing surprising in this. We erased the differences between physical and mental labor, between a woman and a man and so achieved that there is almost no difference. The object of sexual harassment at work can be both a man and a woman. But women are more likely to be sexually harassed at work. At the head of private firms, most of them are young people who are not burdened with moral considerations and are flushed with a sense of power.
In civilized countries, a woman can regard intrusive male views as sexual harassment and sue it. We have the same attention signs have a wide range. These are touches, sexual conversations, scabrous jokes, direct offers to enter intimacy. Most women do not come to mind to sue, because they understand that it will be difficult to prove the fact of sexual harassment.
The males are somehow certain that the woman provokes them and that she always does not mind. Male colleagues are more subtle, they have more intelligence. Those help in various small office problems, invite to dinner or lunch, treat ice cream, affectionately touch the shoulders, give gifts, compliments say. If the benefactor is the boss, he can appoint to a prestigious position, issue a bonus or raise his salary, send a subordinate on a business trip. The meaning of these signs of attention is one, from you a supportive reaction is expected. I'll have to work out advances. And it all depends on your desire to stay in this firm, from temperament and character.
Pay attention to what colleagues say near your workplace. When the creep has a scabrous and sexual color, you need to choose a pattern for yourself. If you support the conversation, it will mean that you are not averse to encouraging courtship and that you are a frivolous woman and free. If you sharply cut off lascivious chatter, it will make it clear that you should not be bothered and that you are a bitch.
It is customary to give presents for the New Year and for birthdays, and this is normal. But be careful if the bosses or men strive to give you something at another time. In some situations and from trifles should be discarded. But if you want to take a chance, then take gifts, even expensive ones.
If you decide that the best way for a career is to have sex with the boss, then you can accept invitations to restaurants, with the subsequent desire to stay with him alone. In other cases, answer any invitations negatively.
Someone thinks that if one rebuffs one of his colleagues or a boss, how then to work? Maybe the work will become hard labor, will they look askance? From work you need to have fun, except wages. Why 5 days a week to suffer and go to work, how to war? Can he resign and live in a new place in a new way? But, for example, you left work. And where is the guarantee that the same problems will not arise in the new place? But leaving permanently, you will not gain life experience, necessary survival skills.
Gray mice do not touch. So you are a noticeable and bright woman, this is a big plus. But in a career it does not always happen smoothly. Well-known modern business ladies faced different problems, including sexual ones. Perhaps, these difficulties helped them to find a way out in these situations. You do not fold the handles at the first glimpses of rudeness and dishonesty. After all, you are a business bitch.
Experience suggests that a demonstration of teeth to all those who want to eat you, make them fall behind and in the end, teach you how to respect you. So much depends on you.