Whatever one may say, thirty years is the next frontier in our life. Of course, we have all sorts of different frontiers, and we are accustomed to meeting them fully armed, but still ... By this date, you must already come up with the available luggage. And in this baggage must be not only all things necessary for life and being, but also ...
goal
At first glance, it would seem, well, what can still be easier than just wanting? And no! For example, someone is just driving a car in a dream, they say, there is no more power to travel in public transport. A reason - a subtle state of mind or something else like that. Of course, very few people (even the mistress of the given dream) believe that this desire can soon be realized in the near future. Because the simple question of what kind of car you see in your dreams, sounds very "muddy" and incomprehensible answer: "Well, this ... beautiful ... You can red!". Strange as it sounds, but our goals and fantasies are two completely different things. So if your fantasy is detailed in more detail, how you will think about its appearance, throw in a mental, and best of all, a written business plan, the points of which will certainly help bring the fantasy of criminality closer, so such a complex metamorphosis as "fantasy - goal - victory" complexities.
Friends
Not so long ago the list of friends was just cosmic. The best friends from the school desk, two from the institute, one from the kindergarten, one from the yard and one from whom they somehow got acquainted through some social network ... And this is definitely not the whole list of girls who can be dared to be referred to list "My best friends". But the years went by and it turned out that one of them is not a "kindred spirit", someone simply uses you to find a new "waistcoat for tears", someone simply behind his back is gossiping about your image of life, angrily chuckling after him, and someone likes to retell your "freshly baked" tales to the left and to the right, and even to those who do not get, and so on. "The test of time," as a rule, is not kept by that, then another friend. Plus to everything else, by the age of thirty years we have become not only wiser, but, unfortunately, more intolerant and much more rigid. Our worldly wisdom, while in the distance, still flaunts in the process of waiting, watching the swan song of youthful maximalism. Therefore, to thirty years of real friends still need to have and, by the way, they must certainly already proven "for lice"!
Love
It is not necessary that love is current. On this role, the former can also go. The whole point is that if you have never loved anyone before the age of thirty, then the probability that in the near future this very mischief will happen, is rapidly declining to zero. Therefore, if the hitherto has been busy raising the skills or searching for yourself (each has its own reasons) - it's time to drop all cases into the distant box and fall in love. You can even without reciprocity.
And the whole point is that such a feeling as love can not be unhappy! A man can only be unhappy, and then, if he so desires. And love is nothing more than a beautiful feeling that does not have any privileges.
Favourite buisness
It must certainly be! If you do not have a favorite, then here the question arises: "How could you not have a favorite job at all, you managed to live up to a tridtsatnik?". The terrible immunodeficiency, in the first place, provokes dissatisfaction and boredom.
By the way, it does not matter at all whether your favorite affair coincides with your profession or work. Knit every night nastarenkih, still grandmother's spokes, you can and completely free, because the most important thing is to get pleasure from it, and if you are for your favorite hobby, and even give money, including vacation, then you are certainly the happiest!
Healthy ambitions
At thirty, we must already be able to give ourselves a sound evaluation. Know all your strengths and weaknesses and clearly understand what in this life we can achieve, and what not. So do not exchange for trifles, you should go and reach the maximum. But the rich vocabulary and self-esteem, which by these years have accumulated, will become great helpers in the fight against all obstacles.
Sexual experience
It may even be not quite stormy, but still. Innocence and cleanliness - this is wonderful, but now it's far from the time when it was all used success. To wait for the prince is a fascinating business, but while you are waiting for him, why not try simple people. At least in order to meet their dream fully armed. Yes, and it would be very good to experience such a solid age at least a real orgasm. And not in proud solitude, but with a man. Well, just to understand why there is so much noise around this.
The occasion for pride
But do not be confused with pride - it comes with respect. After all, each of us had his own personal victories. For someone it can be funny, but very important for us. And we should not forget about them, especially when they reproach us with something. Of course, you need to take criticism, but nevertheless, you will agree, how warm the soul of the thought that to you, even for yourself, but there is something to be proud of: I saved that kitten by taking it cold to my home!
Bad habits
Of course, it is much better here if it is one habit and it will not cause much harm to health. But all the same, let it be! Avse because it is bad habits that can very well emphasize our individuality.
Just do not immediately, referring to these words, to smoke a pack of cigarettes or to cram a huge piece of cake into yourself - it will hardly do you good!
Good deed
They say that good deeds can not become famous. In principle, but why? Public recognition and fame are not playing a role here. It is necessary (and not in the quantity of one time) to do something good for someone. How to talk: Just like that! ".
Optimism
This is exactly the most important and the main point, because there is no optimism, as they say, "and life is not nice". It is unlikely that in this world there is a woman who, having lived to her thirties, has never experienced pain, resentment, insults, loss, despair in life ... This list, unfortunately, can be continued for a very long time. Uneasy thing, this life. But she and netakaya too insidious, if the creature of fate-destiny to fight with her own weapons. And most importantly the weapon of fate is a sense of humor! So now draw conclusions.
And anyway, if you do not have a sense of humor and optimism by the age of thirty, how then do you intend to live on and meet the conscientious age? But if you still did not know this, in forty years life, as the rule, is just beginning!