How to avoid conflict between a man and a woman?

Conflict situations concern everyone, especially they affect couples the first years of a joint life. Everyone wants to avoid them, understand what the problem is, but why, then they look for these problems only in their second half, thereby worsening the situation. It is in the initial period of family relations that conflicts are perceived very sharply, it seems that even small quarrels are resolved only by divorce.


How to avoid conflict between a man and a woman? To answer this question you need to understand its causes first. And so, men and women think in quite different ways, they have different logic and, accordingly, their actions.

If a man is accustomed to think and act more, the woman in this case gives in to more emotions and feelings. Also, the reasons for the conflict are disrespect to each other, a reluctance to help each other, a different understanding of the word "love". For someone, love is sexual intimacy, and for someone - spiritual intimacy, friendship. Still it is worth noting that most conflicts arise through the fault of women, as they are trying to do "spite" or "revenge". Men are more likely to find a constructive way out of a particular situation.

When a man has any problems, he begins to think hard how to solve them, he goes "into himself" and everything around him is pushed into the background. The woman notices this and begins to look for problems in herself, starts to think that she is not pleased, that he wants to leave her, etc. And then what? Then she tries to figure it all out! Obtrusiveness begins, interrogations and precisely in those moments when he needs to be alone. What is his reaction? Of course, he will not like it, and he will do everything in his favor, provoke the conflict, insist that she is offended and still leave him alone. The man will solve all his affairs, rest and again will be ready to let his loved ones into his life ...

What do other women, those who do not consider it necessary to hammer your head or those who are simply self-confident? They start to practice themselves, go to different salons, buy a lot of things and many more things for their pleasure. They go with friends in all sorts of entertainment places. They do not think about the consequences, do not clog their heads with unnecessary thoughts. And when a man is ready to pay attention to his second half, she appears before him calm, rested. And he shows caress and care for a man when he needs it. And everything is good for them.

Which exit? To impose oneself and try to find out what the man has happened or "to go with the flow" and wait until everything is decided?

You need to be understanding and loving, be able to guess the moments when your dear person needs to just be alone, and this is not because the woman bored him, no, just men are arranged so, in another way they find it difficult to solve their problems. It is necessary to be in a difficult situation to be near and if you want to speak then to be able to listen quietly, then for him half of the problem will be solved, since after the conversation she loses already that status of importance. You also need not forget about yourself, give yourself a rest, put yourself in order.

In no case in conflict situations, one can not insult one another, try to offend. Even if you know that you are exactly right, try to smile anyway and see that the disagreements disappear.

In order to avoid conflict, it is necessary to listen to each other, respect the opinions of their loved ones and, of course, seek compromises. Probably this is the most difficult thing in a relationship, but only you are able to build favorable relations by yourself, if you so choose.