The most important thing in preparing for anal sex is understanding that the procedure can take more than one day, which means that both the woman and her partner must have patience, which will pay off in the future. Do not believe me? Then ask those ladies who take pleasure in such unconventional caresses - they will say in chorus, that for what in life they will not refuse such a pleasant and exciting time.
Experts recommend the whole process of preparation divided into two stages. On the first of them, the woman must prepare herself mentally, and physically, herself for channel penetration. The second stage takes place with the direct participation of the partner.
Getting ready for first-man sex yourself
First thing you need to know is that the anal muscle tightens any object inserted into the hole, and it does not matter if it's a finger, a dildo or a male member. But in order to have a physical opportunity to introduce something into the anus, the sphincter should be relaxed.
The simplest way to do this is by immersing yourself in a bath filled with warm water, perhaps with a few drops of a passion-stirring essential oil. To such aromatomaslamotnosyat, for example, ylang-ylang.
The next stage is a gradual excitation. How to reach him, knows every woman who at least once explored the aerogenic zones. In order to relax, forget about the pressing problems and adjust to the intimate mood, you can turn on the music that causes pleasant memories, light and arrange candles.
Once a woman is sufficiently excited, you can go to the next stage, namely the introduction of the anal opening of the finger, which is desirable to smear with oil. But if you are in the bathroom, the water will serve as an excellent lubricant and will soften the penetration. It is extremely important at the same time to maintain an excited state, in which the introduction of one, and then two fingers will be pleasant. Please note that in order to avoid injury, you will have to cut off your nails.
When a woman is so excited that two fingers are free in the ass, you can go to the vibrator. Note that heroism in this case will lead to nothing good, which means that even the smallest imitator will be enough.
Practice shows that not every woman in the first evening can get a bright orgasm from such penetration, but several nights spent alone in the bathroom will give a tremendous result.
Getting ready for anal sex with a partner
Numerous polls show that few of the men would show up for anal sex, but even if you are sure that your husband or girlfriend wants to try anal sex, you should warn him in advance that you are ready for the boldest experiments. In addition to moral readiness, the partner must understand that the anal muscle in its structure is significantly different from the vagina, and therefore before introducing into the ass member, it is necessary to prepare it.
At the same time, both the woman and the man should realize that for the transition to anal caresses it is necessary to be excited. Often, excellent training can become a traditional vaginal sex, in which the partner will be maximum excited. Another version of the development of events - a man makes cunnilingusey passes to anal caresses, under which the partner gradually relaxes.
When in the ass was not less than two men's fingers, and the woman does not feel any discomfort, you can try to insert the penis gently and without any pressure, on which the condom was previously put on, lubricated with a special lubricant. Remember that in anal sex, the most important is patience and if from the first time you did not succeed, it does not matter, you can not stop at what has been achieved.
Rules of anal sex
And at last I would like to say a couple of words about what kind of rules should be followed to ensure that anal intimate relations are not upset, and the first experience did not become deplorable.
So:
- overdimensional appointment should be some hygienic procedures, namely, to make an enema in order to clean the intestines - so you will be insured against possible embarrassment.
- do not forget to cut your nails short;
- 3) Prepare a condom and a special water-based lubricant in advance.
That's the whole simple list of rules, observing which you can rise to a new level of perception and immerse yourself in hitherto uncharted ocean sensations.