For many women, the concept of a mistress means a potential danger to the family. In fact, if you can become the ideal mistress for your husband, this will significantly strengthen the family and reduce the risk that your husband will, as the people say, "walk to the left." But how to become the ideal mistress for her husband?
The ideal mistress is, first of all the clever woman who wants and is able in bed to be for the husband the most desired. Strangely enough, but sex in intimate relationships is not the most important thing. You can memorize Kama Sutra by heart, skillfully master the technique of performing all exercises, but you can not become the one that your husband will need. It does not matter whether the woman has a stunning appearance or African temperament, the main thing is that she knew how to be sexy. As a result of the poll conducted by VTsIOM, 55% of the men surveyed chose sexuality as the main quality, and only the second most important quality was the appearance - it was chosen by 49% of men. But the mind in this poll was not in the first place.
How to become sexual? According to many of the men interviewed, a sexy woman is one who does not hesitate to show her desire and is able to implement it. Being next to such a woman, a man should feel the aru of desire coming from her. Sexual woman should love sex and get pleasure from it, and not just engage in it. She must be active in sex.
In order to be ideal and beloved for someone, you first need to love yourself, be confident and know yourself a price. But do not build yourself out of touch. In an ideal view of a man self-confident woman does not suffer from complexes over trifles. If you learn to perceive and love yourself the way you are, regardless of your weight, height, small chest or wide hips, the same will do the men around you. It is in the ability to love yourself and is the difference between just a pleasant woman and a woman pleasant in all respects. What can change the latter with ease changes, but what is impossible and so it suits. It is for this reason that girls, for example, with excess weight who smile at their reflection in the mirror and adhere to the principle that there should be a lot of good people, there is no lack of admirers. If a woman loves herself, then she goes on a date with a man, not because it's necessary, but because she really wants it. She does not have sex to keep a man next to her, but because she likes it. Such a woman has always been and remains a mystery to a man. And what can be stronger than the desire to solve this riddle.
In order to enjoy sex itself and deliver it to a partner, a woman should be uninhibited. The art of flirting in every woman in the blood. But why do many forget that you can flirt not only before, but during sex. Fooling around and teasing your partner in bed, you can get rid of the tension that binds your impulses and bring great pleasure to your partner and yourself. Do not forget that sex is a natural part of your love. Learn to enjoy what is happening and then it will give you an incomparable pleasure. If you, for example, broke a heel, act as a girl from advertising - break the second and go on (to the nearest shoe store or to a friend). A woman who does not hesitate and uninhibited behaves in such a situation, in 90% of cases, men perceive as a woman, uninhibited in bed.
Love to give pleasure to your partner. Many modern women having sex think about whether a man will be able to please IM. A perfect mistress should remember that very much depends on her. The basic rule of ideal sexual relations is that you need to give more than you receive.
One of the most dangerous enemies of ideal relationships is understatement and half-hints in bed. It has long been known that a man will take your desire much better if you tell him about it directly, without hints, especially in bed. Do not hesitate to tell your partner about how you like. And if you confirm your words with moans and sighs, then believe me, next time you will not have to ask. Conditional reflex in men is produced much faster, and such a simple feature as "pleasant caresses - she is happy" they remember very quickly.
As you know, men are very fond of when they are complimented, much more than women. A smart woman will always be able to praise her man in such a way that he feels like the king of the world, but at the same time, without offending him, mention that, paying more attention to the pleasant moments, he could make her happier.
Happy sexual relations, as a rule, positively affect both the spiritual and the material sphere of human activity. And as it is known for a successful man is always a woman. And if this woman is also an ideal lover for her husband, then he will be successful twice.