Let's see what it is all the same. "Hyperactivity" is a very multifaceted concept and speaks of attention deficit disorder, as well as the child's excessive activity. With these children, as a rule, a lot of problems. The biggest problems are to find a way to teach them and rejection by society of such hyperactive children.
The main thing to know is that no doctor can help cope with this problem as "hyperactivity." Education of hyperactive children is primarily on the parents. You can help your kid to cope with these difficulties. But it's not easy. It is necessary to understand that this syndrome is not treated, but should simply be smoothened. To do this, there is a method of educating hyperactive children. First and foremost, parents need to pay more attention to their children, rather than watching TV after work. This time can be used with benefit for the family and the child. For example, you can offer your kid to do clay modeling or drawing, fold puzzles or just calmly help her mother in the kitchen, turn the daddy bolt in the wall. These actions will help the child to throw out his extra energy, emotions and aggression. The result will be on the face. The baby will become calmer, more balanced.
The surrounding society perceives such children as spoiled, ill-bred and spoiled. In most cases, parents also do not understand their child, thinking that this is a feature of character. They scold him for it. But this method of education will lead to nothing good. You will further exacerbate the problem of the child. It will not give a result in getting rid of hyperactivity and strictness of education. It is necessary to find a compromise. The most important task of the parent is PATIENCE, positive attitude and love. Angry with the child does not make any sense.
As a rule, it is very difficult for hyperactive children to find a common language with their peers. The child remains "overboard" the company or team. But the child wants to communicate!
The method of education of hyperactive children should be selected individually for each child. One of the parents can give the child to a private paid school, someone to hire tutors and the teacher is engaged in an individual program.
If the child is too active, this is not an indicator that the child suffers from a lack of attention syndrome. The conclusion can be given only by the neuropathologist at a careful examination. Hyperactivity is a disease in which the nervous system suffers, nerve cells are affected.
To recognize this ailment earlier, it is necessary to pay attention to the behavior of the baby from the first minutes of life: how he sleeps, eats, whether there are causeless hysterics, whether he often cries. The child can not concentrate, inattentive. But, as a rule, parents begin to understand that the child is hyperactive already late, when the child starts to go to school, lags behind in some subjects. Well, if you noticed the syndrome still in the kindergarten, then you are just attentive parents. It is necessary to change the attitude to your child, to edit the methods of upbringing and then in the future, perhaps, to avoid problems in school.
Psychologists recommend creating a favorable, warm environment for the child. If the baby is annoyed by the noise, turn on the quiet quiet music, if he reacts violently to the light, then buy a lamp with no bright light. It is very effective for the baby to take coniferous baths, with the root of valerian to make tea. With such a baby it's better not to visit noisy places (markets, parties, shops). Involve the child in quiet games, concentrate his attention. Suitable games such as cubes, make up mosaic, drawing, coloring, reading books. And most importantly, encourage your baby, because he is so attentive to you. The child should not overwork - it can lead to a flash of emotions. Between quiet games let the child frolic and return to calm games again. Accustom the child to the schedule. This will help him to calculate his time and strength. There must be a certain time for eating, playing and sleeping. Thus, the baby in the kindergarten will be easier to get used to the routine.
When studying at home to improve the learning of the material, use pictures, drawings and graphics. Teach your baby to listen to adults. Give him small errands and watch for work. And most importantly, praise your baby as often as possible, notice all his successes, rejoice with him. Do not scold him if the kid did something wrong. And sit near the child at the level of his eyes and explain what he did wrong.
Dear parents, in the first place everything depends on you, how the child will enter the adult society. Remember, the main thing your love and hyperactivity of the child will be at all!