All mothers know if the baby is crying, then he is hungry or he has wet panties, or maybe the kid is sick. But if the kid is naughty, although you recently fed him and the diaper is dry. What's the matter? All babies are different. One reacts with crying to any detail, the other calmly tolerates discomfort and even pain. But regardless of individual characteristics, there are things that all babies can not stand. And often they are absolutely right in their dissatisfaction, because some stimuli are not just not pleasant, but even harmful for the slough. What causes discontent among our kids?
Too many nannies
If you go to work, then make sure beforehand that during your absence the kid does not pass from hand to hand: before dinner with him sits a grandmother, then two hours a nanny, later your girlfriend or sister. A child should be engaged in one person (every day the same). A child needs a constant and a sense of security. If too many people are caring for a child at the same time, he will feel like being a nobody, unnecessary abandoned.
Noise and loud noises
Handsome TV, sluggish repairs behind the wall, the cries of teenagers on the street - all these sounds can infuriate even an adult. And what about the baby. He does not understand the origin of these sounds, so they do not irritate him so much as frighten him. In addition, a constant strong noise can affect the child's hearing. And the monotonous sounds of a constantly switched on TV or radio can slow the development of speech in the baby.
But do not overdo it with silence. The baby should grow in a normal environment, not in a greenhouse environment. Do not always walk around him on tiptoe, even when he is sleeping.
Chaos
He is able to dislodge even an adult. Absence of a clear regime of the day is most destructive for the youngest. Although a little woman, who is several months old, sleeps most of the day, he still lives according to his biological rhythm (the time of sleep alternates with the periods of wakefulness). A clear regime of the day gives crumbs not only a sense of security, but also teaches the baby to navigate in time. Watch when your karapuz is tuned to games, and when he wants to rest. Try not to make him surprises like: "Today we'll swim in the morning, not in the evening"
Boredom
Babies cry not only from hunger or from a wet diaper. Sometimes they are capricious, because they are bored. The karapuz, who is often left to himself, is slowly developing, and he has a weaker motivation for learning about the world and gaining new skills. With a crumb, you need to talk, play, often pick up. Remember that for babies the main entertainment is close contact with your mother: he likes to watch you, listen to your voice, repeat your gestures. No educational toy will bring the expected result, if you do not play with the baby.
Excess stimuli
Over the crib turns the mobile, around a huge number of toys scattered around. For the background included songs in the English language, the house is constantly visited by guests who strive to hold the crumbs on their hands, pokagukat with him ... except for this trips to the pool, and massage, with my mother in the store. It's too small for a baby. Children like to watch what is happening, they like to be in the center of events, but these events should not be very much. When they are surrounded by a large number of irritants, they react with crying, sometimes they have problems with sleep. So do not fill up the crumbs with toys, and do not try to deal with it a hundred things at once. When you see that the kid turns his head, closes his eyes, it means that he is tired. Give him the opportunity to fully relax.
Uncomfortable clothes
A narrow jeans jacket, of course very fashionable and beautiful, but uncomfortable for the baby. He can not freely wiggle his hands, clutch at the legs, that is, train his muscles, develop coordination of movements. A close "little man" is not only not convenient, but harmful to the spine and muscles of the baby. Therefore, buy crumbs clothes only from natural fabrics and necessarily free cut. Children's things should not be too big, so that he does not get confused in long pants, for example, during sleep or play, which can cause discontent of the baby.
Remember that there are situations that do not just cause discomfort to the baby, but can seriously harm his health.
Excessive heat
Pediatricians do not get tired of saying that overheating is very dangerous for small children, because the processes of thermoregulation have not yet been adjusted. The temperature in the baby room should not exceed 22 ° C. If the child is hot, he begins to sweat, it becomes difficult for him to breathe, sweating appears on the skin. Naturally, this can cause discontent for a little man.
Cigarette smoke
If someone in your apartment smokes, even through the window, then into the baby's lungs get harmful substances. Tobacco smoke irritates the mucous membranes of the respiratory tract, because of which the karapuz can easily pick up various infections.
Ignoring the children's tears
Do not let the child cry, as our grandmothers sometimes advise. If the baby cries, then it's bad for him, he needs your help, understanding and affection. And there can be no question of childish manipulation. When you do not react to the tears of the baby, he ceases to feel safe.
There are also things that cause discontent among our children, and which have to be done against his will. You should not go on an occasion and should show firmness and not succumb to children's tears.
Cleaning the spout
Kids do not like it, but it's also unpleasant to sleep or eat with a spouted spout. Try to perform this procedure quickly. And during its holding calmly talk with a crumb, try to distract him, for example, sing his favorite song.
Eye wash
Try to stay calm and avoid sudden movements. Do not interrupt the procedure several times, because the baby cries. For each eye, take a clean cotton pad.
Dressing
Little babies do not like to change clothes. Especially they do not like to put on things that are dressed over the head. So first try to avoid such models. Distract the baby, tell him the rhyme and soon he will get used to this procedure.