You may think that these are trifles that are not worth attention. And in vain! After all, it depends on them the quality of your sex life, the harmony of your intimate world. Here are the most interesting facts about sex that you just need to know. Look at yourself and your partner with other eyes. And - for the cause ...
1. Every woman can find a position in which orgasm comes faster and easier.
This does not mean that you can stop at what has been achieved and stop all further experiments. But it's worth knowing the win-win option, which will help you in any case. Remember your feelings, highlight, at what position they are more powerful and deeper. This will be your wand in the future.
2. Your win-win position can change.
During life, our sensitivity, physical form and emotional needs change. And what seemed ideal 10 years ago with her first husband, can stop working. Watch how your feelings change. And do not think that something is wrong with you. Just find a new position, in which again with the same strength you can feel an orgasm. Or maybe you can even strengthen it ...
3. Sexual cliches exist for a reason.
They are very common for one simple reason: they work. And, if you need new sensations, order a room in the rest house, spend the evening together, take a bath with foam and at least once in your life try to light the candles. Is it corny? But effective! Forget that it is beaten and tried by everyone. Just relax and have fun.
4. It always seems that everyone is having sex much more often than you.
There is no such thing as a "normal amount of sex". It is important, rather, quality, and it is worth asking yourself just one question: do you personally have sex enough now? And if you answer "yes", then you can throw out any numbers.
5. Maybe it's worth talking to a man?
It's not easy to talk about sex, but think: is not a couple of minutes of embarrassment worth the fact that your secret desires will be finally fulfilled? After all, men can not always guess what you really want. Even if they are very caring and sincerely want to please you.
6. Scheduled sex can be even better than spontaneous.
This is a very simple and wise explanation: anticipation creates miracles with men and women. Think about it. And better - try it! Tease your man by talking about the upcoming sex, fantasize, get ready morally. By the evening the excitement will reach its peak. Sex will be simply unforgettable.
7. A woman needs time to tune in to sex.
During the day, many people demand your attention: your children, your colleagues and bosses at work, the master you called to fix the washing machine ... It's unlikely that you will be able to reincarnate from a working woman and the mother of the family into a sexual marvel in an instant. You need to rest! Have the husband wash the dishes while you shower and read the book. And, maybe, after that you will become a sexual diva. The more often you have sex, the stronger the desire. Pleasant memories push you to relive exciting moments. And vice versa: if you are accustomed to do without sex, it begins to seem that it is not needed.
9. Even if you really want to embrace and fall asleep right after sex, find the strength to rise and go to the toilet.
Why is it so important? Because many times reduces the risk of infection. However, if you have a permanent partner and you are absolutely sure of it - this rule can sometimes be neglected.
10. When you return from the bathroom, your man is likely to be asleep.
During sex, muscles are in tension, and after ejaculation the body of a man instantly relaxes. In addition, the blood receives a large number of hormones that are responsible for sleep. Simply put, a man falls asleep and can not help it.
11. To worry because of the fact that orgasm for some reason does not come, it is the surest way to not even experience orgasm.
You think: "What's wrong with me? What is the problem? Why does nothing happen? "But ... the more you think, the less you feel. Try to concentrate on pleasant sensations - and from anxious thoughts there will be no trace.
12. Contraceptive methods should be changed.
Physicians believe that a woman needs to reconsider methods of contraception at least twice in her life. The first time - when you have one permanent partner, in the second - after the birth of children. It depends on the hormonal background and changes in the constitution, body structure. When changing methods of contraception, it is better to consult a doctor.
13. You should not be hurt during sex.
If sometimes you experience a feeling of discomfort during intercourse, this should not disturb you. But, if you are hurt often enough, be sure to consult a doctor. Do not pull it! Similar symptoms have very terrible female diseases. Do not let them take you by surprise!
14. Sometimes fast sex is the best option.
If you wait for the overwhelming passion that will one day cover you and your husband, waiting can last a very long time. Try to give up expectations and your body will thank you.
15. And sometimes you just really want to sleep.
Sometimes, you are tired enough that you can not even move, let alone erotic pleasures. This does not mean that the relationship with the partner has exhausted itself. Most likely, it just says that you have small children, nervous work or just want to be a little alone with yourself. This is normal! Try to have your partner take it as adequately.
16. For a man, sex is a way of expressing one's feelings.
A woman sleeps with a man whom she loves, and a man loves the woman with whom she sleeps. This phrase very accurately indicates how different we are about sex. Not every man is able to tell you beautiful words about great love, and do not be offended because of this.
17. There is nothing shameful in that sometimes only taking.
Surely you like to give pleasure to your beloved man, and he is also very pleased to realize that he is capable of driving you crazy. Take it! This is also useful. And the feeling of guilt here is absolutely superfluous.
18. Of course, you can help your beloved man.
The body of each woman is unique. And how can a man know about what gives you pleasure, if you do not tell or show him what exactly you like? The main thing is to drop false shame and frankly admit that you are driving you crazy, and that, on the contrary, do not like it. Believe, the man will be only grateful to you for such frankness. This will be real help for him.
19. With age, sex is getting better.
This is one of the most interesting facts about sex. Maybe it depends on the experience gained or hormonal changes. Maybe it's because you finally learned to understand yourself and your partner. But, anyway, the future is fine! Many women admitted that they began to feel real orgasm only after forty. And men with age become more attentive, caring and can better control themselves in sex.