The presence of a mistress wife on hand?

Before giving arguments in favor of the thesis why the wife should not hate the mistress and what benefit can be drawn from the eternal love triangle, let us recall the roots of this problem.


The root of the psychological often comes from a child. Psychologists argue that the need for love, which is formed in the boy in childhood because of a lack of love of the mother, pushes many men to start novels on the side. After all, their love and care for their wife is not enough. In this statement it is difficult to believe, especially deceived wives, but, unfortunately, this is so. It is generally accepted that on the other hand he only seeks diversity in sex. But psychologists persistently argue that the problem of male multitudes is formed in childhood.

The root of the physiological, which the psychologists do not deny, has become even clearer after the studies that sexologists have carried abroad. It was found that the female body in time produces the so-called natural stimulants of erection, which contribute to the flow of blood to the male sex organ. That is, it directly affects the potency of men. It was revealed the lawfulness: the more a woman is excited, the more these nostimulators, and consequently, the giant feels a man. Like this.

You ask: How does this relate to the presence of a painter? As always in physiology, everything turned out to be quite simple. Over the course of time, the physiology of a man simply becomes accustomed to the stimulants of his wife, as a constant partner. The effectiveness of these natural stimulants is reduced by the imputer seeking an additional "dope" on the side. If there are two sources of stimulation, the man, alternating with them, gets used less. An azkaz from one of the sources leads to a "breakage", as it is necessary to choose. Most often ends in this type of men seeking additional stimulant-lovers.

Rolled in the triangle

Every woman who has a husband in her husband knows it in the depths of his soul! The closer a woman to her inner world and experiences, the clearer she will understand "what is the other".

A wife in a love triangle often just silences herself and her feelings. I see nothing, do not hear anything, do not say anything.

Mistress is part of the family

Unlike his wife, her mistress is often clearly aware of her situation. And this position can give her. But this is only at first, because a mistress is, first of all, a woman who wants a constant love. But this does not happen.

If a woman at least razpobyvala in the role of a mistress, then she knows very well the excuses of men about why he can not divorce. Because 90% of men never leave their wives, if they are not expelled. A married man does not leave the family and that's it! In this whole tragedy of the mistress. And even more tragic is that a man with the help of a woman trying to revive the sexuality and femininity of his wife. And then, as it happens, just throws a mistress. And it happens quite often, because most wives, sooner or later begin to pay attention to the fact that "there is another." And then they begin to revive in themselves that same sexuality and femininity.

And the biggest tragedy of many female mistresses is that they are constantly in this role, moving from family to family, while receiving the condemnation of society.

10 reasons why a wife should not hate a mistress

Often wives are very hated by their husbands' mistresses, consider them to be the descent of hell. Although from the above, you can understand that everything is not so simple and unambiguous. And in order to slightly defuse the situation, we give 10 reasons why his wife does not need to see so much. Some of them are slightly humorous.

  1. Mistress - is, above all, a lonely woman who wants to become happy. She is not the enemy of his wife. Mistresses are women who expect that soon, very soon, there will be a UN on horseback.
  2. Mistresses contribute to the wives in that they do not forget about themselves, about their appearance, so to speak, kept themselves to the very bottom.
  3. A wife can successfully obtain from her husband's gifts on the pretext that he will take the children and leave. Although if you talk about it seriously, then press the feelings of guilt is not entirely correct, but it works.
  4. Often men under the pressure of guilt are placed more attentive to children and to their wife. According to statistics, men do believe that betrayal is for the family nest. Strange as it may seem.
  5. A mistress can become a good girlfriend if they come to such a high level of relationships, when they can communicate with each other. And this situation is not from the realm of fantasy. But this situation is very dangerous for men, because he runs the risk of remaining without his wife, and without a mistress.
  6. Wives who do not really like the bored and too frequent sex with her husband (and this happens often enough), can thank their mistresses for having to deal with their hyperactive man.
  7. And if you have already abandoned your husband, the tolyubnitsa will look after him. After all, ex-husbands are forever.
  8. Mistress, so formed, increases the self-esteem of her husband, and he in turn begins to do great things.
  9. And finally, in 90% of cases the mistress helps her husband to understand that the wife is the most precious thing he has.
  10. Women who have chosen a role for themselves are compassionate, because they spend a lot of precious time for their love for a married man who can never make them happy and realize their dreams.

Wife and mistress, it would seem - are two irreconcilable sides and warring sides. But if you try to figure it out, then the root of this relationship is more often than not in ordinary human jealousy. To the wife it seems, that the mistress has that is not present at it, and on the contrary. In fact, life shows that the mistress is in the corner of the notorious triangle, where tears stream down the stream. And there's nothing to be jealous of.