How to understand a woman who has already married, is her husband responsible? And you need to do a lot of everyday and necessary things, without which marriage will simply crash at the seams, and the family will quickly fall apart. The first and most important thing that a young man should understand is that he is now responsible for his family. The concept of responsibility, incidentally, is not given to every person and every man. In the life of each of us met frivolous people who promise a lot, they constantly forget about everything and rarely keep their word. The head of the family can not be so by definition. He must understand that it depends on him mainly: whether they have accommodation, food, clothing and much more.
Look closely: did your husband realize that everything in life has changed? If a young man liked to spend all his money on some things and relaxing with friends, could he give it up? But this, in any case, will have to be done. Someone partially, but someone completely, but that way of life, which was a bachelor, he certainly will not be able to save. And this, in fact, is a very great stress for any person, not just for a man.
A person must independently come to such decisions and voluntarily give up some habits that he developed over the years. Your husband should understand that in family life, especially when it is just beginning, there are a lot of financial problems. Therefore, a man simply has to find ways to provide for his family. And this means that he needs to refuse to go to bowling, clubs and other entertainments, which take up enough money. By the way, no one says that a woman should not do the same. In good families, democracy always reigns, and all joys and sorrows divide clearly in half. But, nevertheless, any man wants to be the main breadwinner in the family. In addition, he now has not just a beloved woman, but a legitimate spouse who wants to please pleasant surprises and do everything to make her the most beautiful, stylish and, of course, happy and happy. The head of the family has to worry not only about himself, but also about those who are happy, counting on his help, support and love.
Of course, the material side is not the only problem that should worry the family man. Moral aspects are also extremely important in young families. Especially when there are children. Take a closer look: does the loved one realize that the child is not only a great joy, but also a great deal of stress. If the guy feels that he is not ready for this, he can persuade you not to hurry. Do not be angry, because you yourself understand that children are not toys. They need to be taken care of twenty-four hours a day, and this is very difficult and tiring. From your baby you will not take a day off or vacation. This can cause irritation and anger, and children should never experience such feelings, especially from their parents. Therefore, before you take such a step, you need to weigh everything, analyze and honestly admit to yourself whether it is ready (and you yourself) to devote your life to this little creature who will depend entirely on you.
Also, do not forget that the child needs constant development. With babies you need to talk, show everything, read books, count, call colors and letters. Many men believe that at a very young age, children do not understand anything. This opinion is extremely erroneous. All knowledge is laid in the subconscious and affects the development of the child. The more he is invested in the first months and years of life, the sooner he speaks, learns to read and count. And, the kid should be engaged not only mum, but also the daddy. Children should receive the same amount of love and attention from both parents. Even if the father gets tired at work, he can not, having come home, just sit in front of the computer and relax. It is necessary to give at least half an hour of your time to a son or daughter, talk to him, read a fairy tale. And this is when it comes to the baby. The older the child, the more time his father must pay to him. Analyze these aspects and determine if the young man understands that the presence or absence of male education, to a greater or lesser extent, always and always affects the human psyche. Therefore, if they do not want children to grow up in something defective and complex, it is necessary to give them as much as possible their free time. Moreover, it is very pleasant when you see the results of your work. Sincere children's love and respect become for the person an occasion to feel, the present happiness.
What should a man do when he is responsible for his family? Probably always be a real man. Whatever happens, whatever problems arise in the family, young people should always be able to keep their mind sober, calm and cool. In life there are many problems, we all know it very well and understand it. In the family, in everyday life there are always occasions for quarrels, scandals and disagreements. Men should show wisdom and intelligence, and do not forget about such human feelings as love, understanding and compassion. If everything in your family is exactly so, then your husband is really responsible and there is peace between you, comfort and present, human happiness.