In our time, there has been a noticeable trend when the main visitors to dating sites are married men.
A completely logical question is brewing: what can a married man look for on a dating site? First and foremost, this, of course, is associated with male curiosity and the desire to use their capabilities "ladies'". That is, to try virtually, secretly from his wife to conquer and conquer any girl. Most often, by age, even younger than yourself. Sometimes, this man, simply, in such a way compensate himself for the absence of a mistress in real life or, just superfluous time, checks to see if he has lost his art of seduction. Most often, such familiarity and communication does not reach the next meeting at all. The man stops in time, making sure that he has achieved his goal and is beginning to search for a new "victim" of his plan of seduction. The more girls got into his insidious networks, the more he put in his notebook called the man's "I", a tick. And what, than to you not a computer game. He has his own technique here, a win-win strategy and his own special techniques. There are situations that the husband devotes to these matters, even his wife. Sharing her with her successes and thereby gaining a price in her eyes. There are, of course, cases when a married man just wants a virtual virtual flirtation or even the same sex. Push him to do this, usually two reasons. The essence of the first is based on the fact that he is bored to live and he, directly, is looking for some special zest from his life. The second reason, close to us women - is nothing more than curiosity. As for the latter, the male curiosity is not inferior to the female curiosity. This is a very strong and motivating feeling, which manipulates the man, pushing him to inexplicable and sometimes amazing things, about which a year ago, he himself could not even think. So, let's go back to his virtual flirtation with elements of virtual sex. He, by virtue of his knowledge, heard about these new terms, from his friends or colleagues. And, directly, I decided to participate in it myself, attaching my hand to the computer mouse. For this, your faithful, chose one single girl and the matter went by itself. But this situation, also does not state the presence of the fact that this all ends with a meeting in real life, and their virtual sex will grow into a real one. But, the search for a girl or a woman for the role of a true mistress, this is already cause for concern. Here the man is already going to a specific and deliberate step, absolutely sure of why and for what purpose he visits this site. And finally, let's say the most common and harmless communication on the Internet. Men often can not find a person who listens to them or experiences a misunderstanding from their wife, resorting to finding oneself and virtual friends who will always listen to him, understand or even help him with life advice. Another good reason for acquiring a friend by correspondence may be that he just got tired of all his surroundings, in the form of friends. Or he, simply, does not hesitate to talk about a painful one, precisely with a man he has never seen in his life. By the way, the latter very often progresses in view of our psychology, and it does not matter whether you are a woman or a man. So we found out the most obvious reasons for what a married guy is looking for on a website where people get to know each other.
How to notice what exactly a man expects from his Internet friend? if the husband does not share with you about what he does in fact on these sites, and your questions do not answer at all, letting them pass by your ears. He became noticeably away from you. His nervous tension began to feel, directly, and you. And on your request not to visit these Internet sites anymore, he responds with a scandal. And in general, he goes there only, in secret, from you. These are the main alarming signals that it is necessary to put its virtual life a fat point. Seriously talk to him, and even better deal with such an unobtrusive virtual business as visiting the above mentioned site. Believe me, here he will think. Although it is worth remembering that if your husband tried to change you in this way, it's not at all a fact that he will do it sooner or later without the help of a dating site. So, first of all, figure out your relationship and find out what's wrong with you and what pushes your faithful to such an act. Maybe it says that your book, called "The Family", has already been read by him for a long time. If you want to preserve your family idyll, your husband's love and interest in yourself, start acting. First of all, take care of the transformation of your appearance, and after enriching your inner world. Try, find for yourself some kind of fascinating hobby. Show yourself the way he has not seen you yet. The main thing is never to be lazy to cause interest in yourself from your husband. And then, not that treason, but any girl on the dating site, you will simply not how much.
And as a conclusion, I want to add, give your second half more time, communicate with him, try to solve his problems and, never be afraid to give him your advice once again. Let him spend his free time not with a computer, but with you. For this, arrange as many as possible so-called holidays for "soul and body." And then, full of communication in real life, he will never turn to visiting a dating site. After all, more often than not, he sits on such sites, precisely because of a sense of loneliness and inseparability. Well, if simply because of curiosity, then do not press on him, let him satisfy his need, the main thing being with him always near.