Do not be afraid to change!
She easily finds a common language even with strangers, any boring story will tell so that everyone is heard. It is always interesting with her, that's why she has a lot of friends and admirers. It would seem that such a friend should be proud of, but only who will want to be the eternal companion of the "star"! But how to get out of its shadow, without spoiling the relationship, and what it means to be best friends?
Exit the Twilight
Emphasize your strengths. Ask friends what features of your character and behavior characteristics seem to them the most attractive, and try to show them more often. If you have a charming smile, do not miss the opportunity to show it. If you are a good housewife, make parties, treat your colleagues with goodies. Develop the right qualities. Watch your girlfriend, try to understand what her qualities are most appreciated by others. "Try" them on yourself and think about which of them you could develop, and which ones do not suit you. Find your style. As you know, meet on the clothes. Fantasize, what do you imagine yourself? For example, you stick to an office dress code, and you dream about maxi skirts and open blouses. But who prevents them from wearing during off hours? So you will feel more comfortable, because the style will reflect your personality. Take a great interest. If you have a hobby, do not be shy about it. People like enthusiastic natures, with fire in their eyes talking about a favorite thing. In addition, it will help you to meet like-minded people and even find friends. Go out into the light. It is hard for the householders to become the soul of the company. Be engaged in fitness, dances, a foreign language. The more diverse your life, the more interesting you are to others.
Will there be support?
How can a friend react to your desire to get out of her shadow? If she is interested in being the only "star" in the sky, and wants to see you only as her devoted companion, revise the relationship with her. What does this friendship mean and what does it mean to be best friends?
But a confident woman does not see this as a threat. And if a girlfriend has such qualities as decency and responsiveness, then she will gladly help you become more bright and sociable.
On the crest of a wave
In a company where everyone knows you, it's not so easy to change the habitual style of behavior. Therefore, starting a new life is easier among people you do not know.
Extend the circle of acquaintances. Ask your friend to introduce you to new people.
Be more active. Do not sit aside, listen to other people's conversations, but join in the discussion.
In every companion try to see something good. Sincere sympathy for people is one of the foundations of successful communication. Surely you noticed how pleasant it is to talk with the person to whom the conversation gives pleasure.
Be friendly and sensitive, show interest: listen carefully to your opponents and be sure to ask clarifying questions.
Be sure of yourself. Do not be afraid to say or do something wrong. Only those who do nothing are not mistaken.
Daddies in the answer
It turns out that we inherit our appearance from our fathers. Scientists from the Scottish University of St. Andrew, after analyzing family portraits, came to the surprising conclusion: cute men, as a rule, are born beautiful daughters and sons. With the usual appearance. But the attractiveness of the mother does not give her children in virtually any advantage.
Beauty is contagious
French psychologists conducted a curious experiment. 300 men were shown pictures of women of rather ordinary appearance: on one of the photos they were filmed surrounded by beauties, on the second - next to usual girls, and on the third - in the company of ugly girls. And the most paradoxical thing is that the most attractive men were the ladies pictured in the first picture! So do not be afraid that against the backdrop of spectacular girlfriends you will seem to be a "gray mouse".