Some can immediately argue that they say, what kind of love for yourself - all the strength given to the family and her husband. To this objection let me say that a woman who loves her husband never forgets about herself - after all, her appearance must always be intriguing and interesting, to please the beloved, to admire him and give cause for pride. Well, if you do not love your husband, then you do not care what you look like. Being a "victim of circumstances" is always easier than being on top. Therefore, it is not yet known who loves himself more: he who constantly, regardless of anything, is working on himself and his appearance, or whoever cherishes his own laziness, referring to cares for the family. So, the "sacrifice" always hinders relations with men. A man is accustomed to win, a wife - a victim or a friend-victim becomes uninteresting to him.
Women in relationships with men, according to Tracy Cabot, a psychologist from America, are also hampered by her personal unrealistic expectations. Women since the childhood dream of the prince. They begin to idealize their future chosen one, attribute to him certain character traits, the level of culture and upbringing and other personal qualities, as well as certain labor skills, sports achievements, intelligence - all that they think a real man should have. But the real "gentleman's set" often happens, if not at the height, it goes against the female invented "standard." When a couple is in a meeting in a cafe, walking under the moon, and if a man attracts a lady in a little way, then she immediately tries to idealize him. The range of shortcomings suddenly begins to appear and expand during cohabitation. Relations deteriorate, and then in an unknown direction, love disappears. And who is to blame, man? Did not meet your expectations? Maybe it was worth while to listen to the opinion of mother, sister, girlfriends - they know you better and are able to assess how you fit together. The people around you close people's eyes about your chosen one are not "zamyleny, and quite the contrary - very attentive. In other words, do not expect that your man will be perfect. And also do not expect that you will do it. Not every man, even if he loves you strongly, will allow you to manipulate yourself, to adjust to your stereotypes. Otherwise, he will think that he made a mistake in you and eventually cool down. Remember that love should not depend on which of the two is more perfect. Each of you is unique and in some way, will necessarily surpass the other. You can genuinely love a man, being more competent in any areas. And maybe he loved you for it!
The next moment that prevents women in their relations with men - you expect that all the steps in your relationship will be made by him. But do not forget that a man needs a response, waiting for reciprocity. If you are showing a temper because of your character or pride, then for a man it is a signal that he is not interesting to you. Then your chosen one will try "your charms" on another pass, although you, most likely, will expect more pressure. Remember - men also have pride. If you are at a young age, the young man can and will try to undertake a "new assault". But mature men will try to retire - because single women are much more and find a friend more easily than a friend. In other words, do not reject the man who showed signs of attention to you - learn how to take them beautifully, show your interest, and then figure out what's what.
Some believe that women are impeded in their relations with men by completeness. We dare to assure you that this statement is far from the truth. A woman of pleasant fullness, well-groomed at all times attracted a man. The main thing is that in combination with full thighs there was a waist. Such bends in the mind of Mother Nature will not leave indifferent any man. The theme of completeness is really burning. After all, some girls and women subconsciously believe that they are unpleasant to men and all relationships are maintained at the level of flirting, being afraid to show their body. But if a man flirts with you, it should be about something to say. And the statement "a man loves his eyes" would be more correctly attributed to the concept of passion, not love. Of course, a beautiful woman evokes in the strong half the desire to possess it, and at least once. A cautious man who loves a measured way of life will never take on a beautiful wife who has a place on the podium. But women are simpler, possessing a nice and gentle character can tie a man to him for a long time. For some reason, models and stars are rarely happy. What could be worse than male jealousy. Jealousy can be explained and drunkenness, and beatings, and treason. So, if you do not have the coveted 90-60-90, rejoice. In addition, the time when the forms of the legendary Merlin Monroe or Venus of Milos will again come into fashion is not far off. But the Greeks knew a lot about the body! Of course, we are not talking about "acid-like" girls, barely pushing through the doorway. "Kiselny" belly and the same legs are unlikely to cause interest in a large number of men, and a woman is so hard that there is no strength and desire to be interested in men. But still they love it too! Just try not to spread out to dimensionlessness and watch yourself.
One of the most common mistakes that women make in relationships with men is when they themselves become them - such men in a skirt. Women who have a male character themselves take on a part of their male responsibilities, turning their husband into a limp doll. Some husbands first resist, and then give up their positions, while others - are happy to step aside. And in this case, the woman does the wrong thing. First, she turns her husband into a "parasite" with her own hands, and second, reduces his self-esteem. In the first case, a man lives like Alphonse, taking advantage of all the benefits. At the same time, nothing prevents from getting a mistress on the side and being a real "man" with her. And, when a woman gets tired because she is alone in the "harness", her beloved husband will not allow her to involve herself there for anything. This is where the scandals begin. In the second case, when a man does not feel well, he also begins to look for interest on the side - where he will be appreciated and will feel like a man. Maybe he did not dare enough to leave the family, but he would not refuse from the lady of the heart either.
Relations can also be spoiled if one tries to figure them out during sex. The matrimonial bed is not the place for squabbles. On the contrary - the bed is able to reconcile and even start new feelings.
And one more thing - never refuse your wife in affection. Even if you are very offended. After all, it is in this way that it seems possible for him to make amends to you. In any case, this will save the marriage from possible changes or reduce them to a minimum. Wise women know about this.